just a few questions regarding support

[Pat88998899]

Yes...where is that citation where you said there is a statute that tells Judges in MA to be biased. ARE YOU FOR REAL?

You even asked if you need to quote it. YES, FACETIOUSLY I responded and said hell yeah...please cite it. I even quoted YOU in my response, which is back about a page or 2...tops.

Or is that too hard for you, too? Face it, quite a few of us smacked you around like the piece of trailer trash LOL, this all started WITH how high rents are in Massachusetts AND HOW MUCH IT COSTS TO STAY OUT OF TRAILER PARKS AND AWAY FROM PEOPLE LIKE YOURSELF LOL

you are -- and deservingly so. Or would like to be punched around somemore? You're another reason why abortion is legal. Loser.

They really let you give legal advice?

 

[Ohiogal]

Rent should NEVER = a couple of paychecks' when.... anything!

Sorry, I don't know where you live, but it is quite common where I live. There is a housing and rent crisis going on, which SHOULD be another issue, but obviously is part of the problem, with why men have a problem living, and paying the high child support ordered.

I am a mother, and in order to live in a safe neighborhood, 3 of my paychecks go toward my rent. People living in neighborhoods in nearby towns, with gangs, and high crime are paying 1000 to $1200. Do you think fathers should live in the streets, or... in a hole.

This is a major problem. People like yourself are either ignorant to the plight of a human being guilty of being male, or you just don't care. You know there are a lot of women who leave men, or kick them out because they found someone they prefer to be with, and a lot of these fathers would like shared parenting, but a lot of these mother's don't, for obvious reasons. Yet ALL THESE MEN are treated as if they abandoned the mother.

Pat here is where the problem started. You stated that the plight of a human being guilty of being male and that ALL THESE MEN ARE TREATED as if they abandoned the mother -- that is NOT true.

Then you stated the following:

Well unfortunately common sense does not lower the high rents in Massachusetts. As I previously said one can get a crappy apartment in a town with a high crime rate, for $1000 to $1200. These are normal rents in Massachusetts as I explained previously.

And you really can't see how this IS a gender issue?? Women are automatically given sole custody of the children, no matter who's fault the separation is. Women with children are eligible for housing and have very low rents. . There is a coalition of men who would love to have either sole custody or shared custody, but are denied, simply because it is unheard of unless there is something drastically wrong with the mother. How much more of a gender issue could it be?

Women ARE NOT AUTOMATICALLY given sole custody. That is a falsehood. As the statute I posted showed that it was not the truth in Massachusetts. HOWEVER the OP in this case is in NH. It is not a fact in that state either.

Then you continued:

I have been on both sides and for years have made it a point to help mothers and fathers , whether they are male or female. You just can't accept the fact that you are extemely bias,only sympathetic to women, because you hold a grudge against your ex.



In Massachusetts, unless the mother agrees to joint custody, there is a court battle and the the mother for the most part receives sole custody. This is the glaring truth.
Talk about questioning credibility. Do you work at the housing authority? How would you know?

That may be so, but not in Massachusetts! So don't pretend to know something that you don't. I

Everyone it seems has a bias but you. However you have not supported any of your allegations with facts. And if either parent doesn't agree then it goes to court. And the mother for the most part does NOT receive sole custody. That is an assumption and is not backed up by the facts. There is a vast difference between being primary residential parent and receiving sole custody. There is also a difference between legal custody and physical custody. As for the housing authority -- they are bound by the guidelines as to who qualifies and by federal law they are NOT allowed to discriminate on the basis of gender. Good try.

 

[GrowUp!]

They really let you give legal advice?

Yeah. And kick people's ass, too. You're "tough girl" act ain't all that. You really enjoyed being smacked around like the dumb broad you are, huh?