What is the name of your state? WA
My ex owes me over 80 grand that has accumulated over 13 years. I have always had full custody. Our 18 year old just moved out in June (so proud of him!) and I have our 13 year old daughter left. I agree we need to update the CS order. I have since remarried and me ex has remained a dead beat. He was ordered to pay 724 per month for the 2 like 12 years ago. Over the past 4 years he decided to start paying me a little bit here and there. This past year he might average 200 per month. This is our first time reviewing it as it is what we both want.
I filled out my forms and he filled out his and sent them off to Child Support Enforcement. Next thing I know my ex tells me the prosecuting attorney told him that I would have to pay him like $12 per month. Then I get a letter showing that my ex denied the decision and we would work it out ourselves. He was told it would take up to 6 months to go the the courts. He supposedly told the prosecutor that he had to pay me something and that is why he wanted us to work it our ourselves.
So I call our Support officer. He couldn't see how he could think that I would have to pay him money. He was also shocked that he would be allowed to see my paperwork. I requested copies of the paperwork he filled out. The support officer said he would try and get them for me but wasn't sure if he could. He also could not tell me who the prosecutor is or how to find out. I was under the impression that the case could get referred to the prosecutors office only if we didn't agree with Support Enforcements decision. Funny how he could talk to a prosecutor and no-one ever contacted me.
Now I do make good money for myself and my current husband makes good money but he pays support for his 2 kids and supplies health care coverage for all 4 of kids. I had to write in what my current husbands income is and show copies of our tax filings for the past 2 years. This really makes me mad that my ex can see our wages yet I have no idea what his self employed wage is (or what he claims it to be).
Do you think the court would have copies of what he turned it? Or would that remain soley with the Support Enforcement office?
I now find this all hard to beleive when he owes me so very much in back support even if I can finally live half way confortable on my own income. I thought it wouldn't matter what my income was and how much bills I have. He owes so much that they would make him pay me something towards the back support anyway. Any ideas would be much appreciatedWhat is the name of your state?
My ex owes me over 80 grand that has accumulated over 13 years. I have always had full custody. Our 18 year old just moved out in June (so proud of him!) and I have our 13 year old daughter left. I agree we need to update the CS order. I have since remarried and me ex has remained a dead beat. He was ordered to pay 724 per month for the 2 like 12 years ago. Over the past 4 years he decided to start paying me a little bit here and there. This past year he might average 200 per month. This is our first time reviewing it as it is what we both want.
I filled out my forms and he filled out his and sent them off to Child Support Enforcement. Next thing I know my ex tells me the prosecuting attorney told him that I would have to pay him like $12 per month. Then I get a letter showing that my ex denied the decision and we would work it out ourselves. He was told it would take up to 6 months to go the the courts. He supposedly told the prosecutor that he had to pay me something and that is why he wanted us to work it our ourselves.
So I call our Support officer. He couldn't see how he could think that I would have to pay him money. He was also shocked that he would be allowed to see my paperwork. I requested copies of the paperwork he filled out. The support officer said he would try and get them for me but wasn't sure if he could. He also could not tell me who the prosecutor is or how to find out. I was under the impression that the case could get referred to the prosecutors office only if we didn't agree with Support Enforcements decision. Funny how he could talk to a prosecutor and no-one ever contacted me.
Now I do make good money for myself and my current husband makes good money but he pays support for his 2 kids and supplies health care coverage for all 4 of kids. I had to write in what my current husbands income is and show copies of our tax filings for the past 2 years. This really makes me mad that my ex can see our wages yet I have no idea what his self employed wage is (or what he claims it to be).
Do you think the court would have copies of what he turned it? Or would that remain soley with the Support Enforcement office?
I now find this all hard to beleive when he owes me so very much in back support even if I can finally live half way confortable on my own income. I thought it wouldn't matter what my income was and how much bills I have. He owes so much that they would make him pay me something towards the back support anyway. Any ideas would be much appreciatedWhat is the name of your state?
