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[SnS76]

What is the name of your state? NH

I'm not even sure where to post this, or if this even is anything to worry about.
As I've stated in my previous threads over in the child support section, my ex and I had a temp hearing for an order of support and visitation back in Sept. Which I'm still waiting to hear something one, but that's not the point.

I have a Myspace account. Just recently, the ex's live-in girlfriend has found my account. I use my blog ALOT .. and of course, I have made some references on it about what has gone on .. and some simple ones quoting some things from here, which is one I am referring to in this post.

The reason I know she has found it is because she made a comment to one of my blogs. One with quotes that CJane had made one time about a deadbeat father. I basically reposted it and made a couple of comments of my own.

you are a miserable b***. and should tell people the truth about how you refuse your children a father, and a good one at that you fat ugly desperate b****, he payed support for over a year without seeing his kids and you are so upset that -Dads- ba*** aren't in your pocket anymore that you would deny your own children a GOOD father. YOU S***. and in the end everyone will know the truth.

Unfortuntely, neither of them seem to realize the truth.

But, that is what was posted, along with various other comments through out my site. I know I definitely don't have any legal action I can take here, but how does this fit in with the whole visitation/support thing we have going on now ? It definitely was mentioned in parenting plans and such that this person was a problem as far as 'allowing' dad access to his children and stuff exactly like this.

Is there anything I can do ? Is it worth it to save and pass along to my attorney, or is it pretty much just an immature person spewing and there's nothing I can do about it ?

Thanks for any advice

 

[CJane]

Is there anything I can do ? Is it worth it to save and pass along to my attorney, or is it pretty much just an immature person spewing and there's nothing I can do about it ?

Thanks for any advice

I think this is the best course of action.

Block the user and set your blogs to be read only by friends.

Here's how I look at it when the ex and his wife go loopy on me...

If you get upset and go 'running' to your attorney to tattle on them... they win by costing you time, energy and money.

If you respond to them, they win by costing you time and energy.

If you chuckle, pass their comments off to friends who will exclaim about the psychosis but laugh with you, and then move on... YOU win.

Take the high road. The view from up there is great.

 

[haiku]

I think this is the best course of action.

Block the user and set your blogs to be read only by friends.

Here's how I look at it when the ex and his wife go loopy on me...

If you get upset and go 'running' to your attorney to tattle on them... they win by costing you time, energy and money.

If you respond to them, they win by costing you time and energy.

If you chuckle, pass their comments off to friends who will exclaim about the psychosis but laugh with you, and then move on... YOU win.

Take the high road. The view from up there is great.

I totally agree.

(I love the fact that my husbands moron ex's myspace is "Public", it gives us great entertainment value..shes a 'trashbag'..LOL -thats all I would look at your ex's girlfriends comments as...)

 

[SnS76]

Thanks guys

Oddly enough, my blogs were private and I can only guess she got in through someone who was added to my friend list very hesitantly. Now I see I should been a little more than hesitant about it ..lol

If you chuckle, pass their comments off to friends who will exclaim about the psychosis but laugh with you, and then move on... YOU win.

That does seem the best way to deal with it and I sure do like the view so far

Thanks again

 

[VeronicaLodge]

you can delete that friend you were unsure about

 

[profmum]

I think this is the best course of action.

Block the user and set your blogs to be read only by friends.

Here's how I look at it when the ex and his wife go loopy on me...

If you get upset and go 'running' to your attorney to tattle on them... they win by costing you time, energy and money.

If you respond to them, they win by costing you time and energy.

If you chuckle, pass their comments off to friends who will exclaim about the psychosis but laugh with you, and then move on... YOU win.

Take the high road. The view from up there is great.

CJane! just what i needed to read today!! I am off to nasty mediation tommorrow with Xfiles where he is claiming I am flight risk when I take my court approved trip to Asia, lied about my citizenship, is claiming I am "hiding" money in off shore accounts and hence he does not owe me CS.. and that was just last Wed!! He found out about Dr T, so who knows what is coming next. The judge got so annoyed that he ordered us to come to his tomorrow and " he will put is in his court room and walk in and out till we get this figured out"!!.. we are preschoolers!! So I am mentally preparing to hear the worst about myself and continue to TAKE THE HIGH ROAD!!.. UGH!

Best thing though he and I have never had to spend more than 2 mins seeing each other at the some exchanges in the last 10 months and now we have to spend several hours staring at each other)
So counting once again on the great view from up top!

 

[qurice]

You can take down your MySpace. If you have the need to journal in a notebook or in Notepad. There are also other blogging sites you can use that can make it independent from MySpace and harder for people to identify you personally.

I'm a big believer in if you don't want people to see/read it, don't put it ONLINE

Sorry, I'm just so anti-MySpace, thanks for humoring me