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Joint legal/phys cust-ex moving 1hr away,can he pull kids from their school?

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mamasan03

Junior Member
Michigan-

My ex and I share joint legal and physical custody of our 7 & 8 year old son and daughter. Since divorcing in 2002 we both mutually agreed to live in homes within walking distance to their school. He recently remarried and plans to move an hour away. Can he pull our children from their school to enroll them in another without my consent? They are very upset by this. Any information or insight would be greatly appreciated...mamasan03What is the name of your state?
 


Silverplum

Senior Member
Michigan-

My ex and I share joint legal and physical custody of our 7 & 8 year old son and daughter. Since divorcing in 2002 we both mutually agreed to live in homes within walking distance to their school. He recently remarried and plans to move an hour away. Can he pull our children from their school to enroll them in another without my consent? They are very upset by this. Any information or insight would be greatly appreciated...mamasan03What is the name of your state?
No, neither parent could do such a thing under your custody arrangement. It's not possible to share joint physical during the school years when the parents live an hour apart.
 

CJane

Senior Member
No, neither parent could do such a thing under your custody arrangement. It's not possible to share joint physical during the school years when the parents live an hour apart.
Possibly impossible to have SHARED physical custody but not JOINT. And not necessarily impossible. Depends on how hard the parents are willing to work to make it happen.
 

Silverplum

Senior Member
Possibly impossible to have SHARED physical custody but not JOINT. And not necessarily impossible. Depends on how hard the parents are willing to work to make it happen.
Sorry...yes, I meant SHARED PHYSICAL. And it depends upon how far the moving parent is willing to drive every day. ;)
 

mamasan03

Junior Member
Thank you Silverplum and CJane...

"Sorry...yes, I meant SHARED PHYSICAL. And it depends upon how far the moving parent is willing to drive every day." - Silverplum

"Possibly impossible to have SHARED physical custody but not JOINT. And not necessarily impossible. Depends on how hard the parents are willing to work to make it happen."
- CJane

(My emphasis there) - So he can NOT pull them from their school just because he is moving from the area? A judge would deny this request? Neither of us claim any type of abuse or neglect or anything of the sort, so there are no extenuating circumstances where (I feel) he should be allowed to do this other than for his convenience.

Thanks again...
 

Silverplum

Senior Member
So he can NOT pull them from their school just because he is moving from the area? A judge would deny this request? Neither of us claim any type of abuse or neglect or anything of the sort, so there are no extenuating circumstances where (I feel) he should be allowed to do this other than for his convenience.

Thanks again...
No, he really can't. :) Unless, of course, you just lie down and limply allow it to happen. ;) If he files, object legally. If he tells you he will file, invite him to do so. If he threatens to file, invite him to do so. If he puts the kids in the new school on his own, march yourself to the new school with your court order in hand and remove the children to their regular school.
 

mamasan03

Junior Member
Thanks so much Sugarplum

No, he really can't. :) Unless, of course, you just lie down and limply allow it to happen. ;) If he files, object legally. If he tells you he will file, invite him to do so. If he threatens to file, invite him to do so. If he puts the kids in the new school on his own, march yourself to the new school with your court order in hand and remove the children to their regular school.
Ok! I will absolutely not just lie down and take it! I can't thank you enough for your replies . My kids and I will not be losing any more sleep over this issue. :)
 

TinkerBelleLuvr

Senior Member
Your X would have to notify you. You have a right to protest.
Many orders that grant joint legal and physical custody also address the school enrollment issue if the parties live in different districts. If this is not the case and the parties are having difficulty agreeing, we strongly recommend that the parties agree to voluntary mediation through the local Friend of the Court (provided at no charge to the parties, but must be voluntary by both). Absent agreement or voluntary mediation, one of the parties must petition the Court for an order designating a school district for the child(ren).
Most divorce judgments and many support orders and orders of filliation have a paragraph in them that tells parents they must seek the court's permission before they can move out of state with the minor child or children of the parties or move away more than 100 miles of your address at the time of your divorce judgment or other court order for Parenting Time was entered. This applies to a parent who has primary physical custody, and would apply to both parents if they have shared physical custody.

The court must consider the following factors in deciding whether to grant permission for a parent to remove a minor child from the state:

1. Whether the move could improve the quality of life for both the custodial parent and the child

2. Whether the custodial parent is trying to prevent visitation by the non-custodial parent, and whether the custodial parent would be likely to comply with a new visitation schedule that would be needed because of a move

3. Whether the non-custodial parent is opposing the move because it would be to his or her advantage in paying support

4. Whether the court is satisfied that there
will be an actual opportunity for visitation, in place of the every-other week pattern, that makes it possible to preserve and foster the child's relationship with the non-custodial parent, if the court allowed the move.

The factors that the court must consider in change of domicile cases were set forth in D'Onofrio v D'Onofrio, 144 NJ Super 200, 365 A2d 27 (1976), aff'd, 144 NJ Super 352, 365 A2d 716 (1976). The Michigan Court of Appeals adopted this test for change of domicile cases in Overall v Overall, 203 Mich App 450, 512 NW2d 851 (1994).

A custodial parent wishing to move from the state with a minor child must file a motion for change of domicile with the court. The person's attorney or the person him or herself may file such a motion. The other parent must be notified of the date and time for a hearing on the motion.
 

mamasan03

Junior Member
Ginny, Silverplum

I know I'm sounding like a fawning idiot but I just have to express my deep gratitude for your information (and kindness:)) I'm sure others you both have helped would say the same!

Mamasan03
 

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