Visitation restrictions

[dancer]

She hasn't accompanied me yet on my visitation weekends. This weekend will be the first time that she will do so. She and I will both be going up to the apartment for my visitation. Based on my feelings, and on advice from here and other places, I haven't wanted to introduce her until my 3-year old has had time to adjust to the divorce situation.

Personally, I agree with you. There is no issue, only that my ex is making it an issue on the grounds that she doesn't know my fiancee, and therefore feels she has the right to deny my access to them.

Wait, so you haven't wanted to introduce her to your 3 year old, but Mom got mad because you wanted to leave baby inside with girlfriend while you played outside with 3 year old?

That doesn't make any sense. One or the other can't be true.

 

[Kalso]

Thanks for the opinions Dancer, but keep up...this was last year's issue. And I do spend as much time as possible with the children. BOTH of them.

Wait, so you haven't wanted to introduce her to your 3 year old, but Mom got mad...

Keep reading...I said that I hadn't wanted to introduce her UNTIL she had adjusted to things.

Also, that girlfriend/fiancee is now my wife. Today's our one year anniversary. I wasn't asking what kind of activities I should engage in with my children, I was asking legal advice. So keep your morality to yourself.

Again, this was last year's issue. For the record, though, it wasn't intended to hurt mom, it was intended to build a relationship with the woman I married. Both of my girls are very, VERY fond of her. That was the goal of introducing her.

 

[profmum]

Again, this was last year's issue. For the record, though, it wasn't intended to hurt mom, it was intended to build a relationship with the woman I married. Both of my girls are very, VERY fond of her. That was the goal of introducing her.[/QUOTE]


If the kids are doing fine.. then all else is moot, kids now have a loving SM (i hope) and an engaged Dad and if that is true then Mum needs to deal with it.

 

[Just Blue]

Thanks for the opinions Dancer, but keep up...this was last year's issue. And I do spend as much time as possible with the children. BOTH of them.



Keep reading...I said that I hadn't wanted to introduce her UNTIL she had adjusted to things.

Also, that girlfriend/fiancee is now my wife. Today's our one year anniversary. I wasn't asking what kind of activities I should engage in with my children, I was asking legal advice. So keep your morality to yourself.

Again, this was last year's issue. For the record, though, it wasn't intended to hurt mom, it was intended to build a relationship with the woman I married. Both of my girls are very, VERY fond of her. That was the goal of introducing her.

Dancer is a moron...Ignore it...It won't be posting here much longer.

Congrats to you and your new wife on your one year anniversary!!