What is the name of your state? I live in NJ and my wife lives in Pa.
We have been separated for 3 years (still legally married). My wife had an affair with a married man; we separated and shortly after his wife found out and filed for divorce. Once his wife moved out my wife moved into his home and they have been living together ever since. He is still going through a long drag out court battle, because there is a lot of money and a business involved. His future X would greatly benefit with this information, unfortunately I have no way of contacting her.
We have a court agreement, granting us both joint custody of my two children (8 and 9); she has 4 older children by another marriage. The agreement states that we have joint custody with the children’s primary residence are with the mother and I get my boys every weekend.
Child and youth have been called to their home on at least 3 occasions, for child neglect. Each time C and Y came to the house nothing was ever done about it. She really doesn't want the kids but she doesn't want me to have custody more. I get the boys every weekend and speak to them every night on the phone. If I call her and tell her that I can't take the kids on a particular weekend she flips out. I drive both ways to get my children each weekend. I had car trouble a few weekends ago, I told her I couldn't get them and she threw her usual fit and her BF ended up driving them to me. She is too busy on weekends to be bothered by her kids.
I just found out she is pregnant, (my youngest just told me) and I found out it is true, through a mutual friend. I am so afraid that since she already doesn't pay much attention to my kids, once this child is born, she will have no time for them at all. Unfortunately I have no proof of the neglect. They have many people that will swear to any lie that they create. That is also why children and youth have never done anything. An example would be; they went away for a few days during the week and left the kids home alone. Some one had found out and C and Y were called. When they came to investigate she had an employee state that she was staying at the house watching them. The children also lied so that their mom wouldn’t get in trouble. Both boys have told me many times that they would rather live with me then their mom. And also when my youngest told me about the pregnancy I asked him how he felt and he told me he wasn’t happy about it at all, that his mom will spend too much time with the baby and not him.
I feel so helpless any advice would be deeply appreciated.
Thanks for you time,
Xo
We have been separated for 3 years (still legally married). My wife had an affair with a married man; we separated and shortly after his wife found out and filed for divorce. Once his wife moved out my wife moved into his home and they have been living together ever since. He is still going through a long drag out court battle, because there is a lot of money and a business involved. His future X would greatly benefit with this information, unfortunately I have no way of contacting her.
We have a court agreement, granting us both joint custody of my two children (8 and 9); she has 4 older children by another marriage. The agreement states that we have joint custody with the children’s primary residence are with the mother and I get my boys every weekend.
Child and youth have been called to their home on at least 3 occasions, for child neglect. Each time C and Y came to the house nothing was ever done about it. She really doesn't want the kids but she doesn't want me to have custody more. I get the boys every weekend and speak to them every night on the phone. If I call her and tell her that I can't take the kids on a particular weekend she flips out. I drive both ways to get my children each weekend. I had car trouble a few weekends ago, I told her I couldn't get them and she threw her usual fit and her BF ended up driving them to me. She is too busy on weekends to be bothered by her kids.
I just found out she is pregnant, (my youngest just told me) and I found out it is true, through a mutual friend. I am so afraid that since she already doesn't pay much attention to my kids, once this child is born, she will have no time for them at all. Unfortunately I have no proof of the neglect. They have many people that will swear to any lie that they create. That is also why children and youth have never done anything. An example would be; they went away for a few days during the week and left the kids home alone. Some one had found out and C and Y were called. When they came to investigate she had an employee state that she was staying at the house watching them. The children also lied so that their mom wouldn’t get in trouble. Both boys have told me many times that they would rather live with me then their mom. And also when my youngest told me about the pregnancy I asked him how he felt and he told me he wasn’t happy about it at all, that his mom will spend too much time with the baby and not him.
I feel so helpless any advice would be deeply appreciated.
Thanks for you time,
Xo
