What is the name of your state? NM
My wife has been coming here for about four months. Thank you. I have had 2 or 3 victories with my situation. Noteably, through the informational resources that she got from here I was able to nail down that I have paid into tens of thousands of dollars above what was required of me these past 3.5 years.
I was shocked, to say the least, and finally took steps to start correcting this. I don't want my kids to go with out but the bottom line is that I have been working myself into the dirt and going without so I could pay.
From what I understand most of you who helped her are now banned, including her. That usually happens to the good ones in any organization. It happened to me in the army over and over, but I never failed a combat mission. However as a Command Sergeant Major I did have the pleasure of ripping the butts out of several Incompetent field grade and other officers as well as some NCOs, but not near as many NCOs. I was on the carpet with the General on more than one occasion. I was great in combat, but I did not play well with briefcase Soldiers and Marines during peace, because we trained for war like it was tomorrow, like in gladiator. So I relate to the banned folks of the board, the warriors. In the end at my retirement the General asked me four times to stay in. I take it the banned warriors of the board will be asked back as well. If not I will email them, because they helped me the most.
I have to say that in the beginning I was very skeptical of this board, the people on it and the information she got from here. But as of today ALL the insight, all the links, all the 'mean' responses, all the 'harsh' replies, have proven themselves out.
I have learned to sanitize my interactions with the children's mother, I do not use emotions any more and I have referred others here and given them the rules that my wife learned on here.
Sergeant Major (retired)
U.S. Special Forces
My wife has been coming here for about four months. Thank you. I have had 2 or 3 victories with my situation. Noteably, through the informational resources that she got from here I was able to nail down that I have paid into tens of thousands of dollars above what was required of me these past 3.5 years.
I was shocked, to say the least, and finally took steps to start correcting this. I don't want my kids to go with out but the bottom line is that I have been working myself into the dirt and going without so I could pay.
From what I understand most of you who helped her are now banned, including her. That usually happens to the good ones in any organization. It happened to me in the army over and over, but I never failed a combat mission. However as a Command Sergeant Major I did have the pleasure of ripping the butts out of several Incompetent field grade and other officers as well as some NCOs, but not near as many NCOs. I was on the carpet with the General on more than one occasion. I was great in combat, but I did not play well with briefcase Soldiers and Marines during peace, because we trained for war like it was tomorrow, like in gladiator. So I relate to the banned folks of the board, the warriors. In the end at my retirement the General asked me four times to stay in. I take it the banned warriors of the board will be asked back as well. If not I will email them, because they helped me the most.
I have to say that in the beginning I was very skeptical of this board, the people on it and the information she got from here. But as of today ALL the insight, all the links, all the 'mean' responses, all the 'harsh' replies, have proven themselves out.
I have learned to sanitize my interactions with the children's mother, I do not use emotions any more and I have referred others here and given them the rules that my wife learned on here.
Sergeant Major (retired)
U.S. Special Forces
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