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They were there...

But this judge doesn't hear from witnesses. Plus the first thing my exhusband told the officer from that last report (where they came to my home 1/4) was "my girlfriend isn't supposed to be near my exwife"... that report was ALSO in the response.

I thought this was a no brainer!!!!
 


casa

Senior Member
But this judge doesn't hear from witnesses. Plus the first thing my exhusband told the officer from that last report (where they came to my home 1/4) was "my girlfriend isn't supposed to be near my exwife"... that report was ALSO in the response.

I thought this was a no brainer!!!!
I think you learned the lesson of "NEVER interrupt a Judge".

It's good you retained an attorney ~ He will make sure the reports are filed properly, that the evidence is legally acceptable, etc. etc. The game playing will slow waaaaaaaay down now. That's a good thing.
 
I think you learned the lesson of "NEVER interrupt a Judge".

It's good you retained an attorney ~ He will make sure the reports are filed properly, that the evidence is legally acceptable, etc. etc. The game playing will slow waaaaaaaay down now. That's a good thing.
No kidding there!!! This particular judge engages in some pretty pregnant pauses - at which point I immediately assumed "MY TURN"... eek
 

wileybunch

Senior Member
Did the judge say why he didn't want to hear from the witnesses? If all the witnesses were her family members, that's likely why. I don't know if that's entirely fair or right, but it happens.
 
Is an appeal possible? I'm thinking about the part that the witnesses were not allowed.

I am going to talk with my attorney on Tuesday about this... I don't necessarily want to ever go in front of him again - after being told to shut up by him I'm thinking that nothing I say will ever be listened to anyway.

Restraining order doesn't bother me because it was always HER coming where I am --- I will close all of those loop holes hopefully with the attorney...I don't go near her - never have - don't plan on it either...
 
Did the judge say why he didn't want to hear from the witnesses? If all the witnesses were her family members, that's likely why. I don't know if that's entirely fair or right, but it happens.
Nope - all that happened was he told me he'd put me in jail and to shut up... there was no presenting the facts to him - he has no clue apparently of the entire situation - probably because he'd not read the response... this is why I'm lawyering up... Kalea and I have a custody exchange... we'll have people all around us - this time where my exhusband and his girlfriend can clearly see them...
 
Going to see the attorney today...

I need some help on what LEGAL questions I need to go over with her. This entire fiasco has gotten worse... I had a visit from one of the officers that is very familiar with my exhusband and his girlfriend's antics with false reports. He came as a courtesty to me to say that they have been to the police station on several occasions insisting that I be put into jail and he also told me that I'd be VERY wise to not answer any calls from him and to always have a third party present, visibly present, at custody exchanges. Problem is I've laid down to two restraining orders and now there are loop holes the size of the grand canyon that I can easily fall into.

The fact that my exhusband has been filing false reports with MPD goes way back to July - I have three reports from three seperate officers stating that he knew he was in violation yet called the police on me anyway...

What, if anything, can my attorney do to stop this and how do I present it to her in the $200 1/2 hour that I've got at 2:00 today so that she gets the full understanding?
 

casa

Senior Member
I need some help on what LEGAL questions I need to go over with her. This entire fiasco has gotten worse... I had a visit from one of the officers that is very familiar with my exhusband and his girlfriend's antics with false reports. He came as a courtesty to me to say that they have been to the police station on several occasions insisting that I be put into jail and he also told me that I'd be VERY wise to not answer any calls from him and to always have a third party present, visibly present, at custody exchanges. Problem is I've laid down to two restraining orders and now there are loop holes the size of the grand canyon that I can easily fall into.

The fact that my exhusband has been filing false reports with MPD goes way back to July - I have three reports from three seperate officers stating that he knew he was in violation yet called the police on me anyway...

What, if anything, can my attorney do to stop this and how do I present it to her in the $200 1/2 hour that I've got at 2:00 today so that she gets the full understanding?
Bring the reports to the attorney.
 
I have them all...

And then some.. along with the correspondence from the Sergeant in charge of 9-1-1 stating that the chief of police has ordered a premise history on my home because of his misuse of police services.

Also - When am I allowed to say that it is in the best interest of our child that I cease allowing him to utilize telephone contact time (she's THREE) and custody exchange times to harass me?


His constant badgering and insistant defiance of all things in her best interest are very tiresome. At what point do I get to say enough is enough?
 

casa

Senior Member
And then some.. along with the correspondence from the Sergeant in charge of 9-1-1 stating that the chief of police has ordered a premise history on my home because of his misuse of police services.

Also - When am I allowed to say that it is in the best interest of our child that I cease allowing him to utilize telephone contact time (she's THREE) and custody exchange times to harass me?


His constant badgering and insistant defiance of all things in her best interest are very tiresome. At what point do I get to say enough is enough?
Good bring that premise history also.

The way to address the phone/harassment issues is:
1) Ask for a Public Drop off (gas station mid-way or local PD) to 'minimize conflict at exchanges'. Believe me, the insanity will decrease.
2) Ask the Court to order a 'reasonable' phone contact order for a 3 yr old child.

At the point that the Court's see enough of him, that he begins to get Jerk Status. It's coming. Be patient.
 
Thank you...

The custody exchange location is 100 yards from my home as it stands... doesn't stop him from screaming "YOU MUST REMAIN 100 YARDS AWAY FROM MY VEHICLE OTHERWISE I WILL CALL THE POLICE"...

I just wanna say "ok fool so how do you expect me to get the baby"... but I don't - I just walk over collect boo and go.

I think the best bet - albeit VERY sad... is the police station... preferably in MY town since they love him so much.
 

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