Not able to pay, what can be done?

[stealth2]

mountaindude - two things:

1) Do not dredge up old threads and post to them. This one is 3 1/2 years old.

2) Do not hijack threads. If you have a question, start your own.

 

[Just Blue]

Please don't post to 4 year old threads. If you have a legal question start your own thread.

 

[Ohiogal]

SSDI,at least in georgia,doesn't appear to stop anything.My kids are grown now.The mother has been banned from food stamps,welfare,and housing for life for fraud already.She has collected ssi or ssdi for years,along with a seperate check for the children.She threw the children out,numerous times.CSR knows this/Once,she even signed a notarised statement terminating her rights.Another,DFCS took them and gave them to me for abuse.

This has happened numerous times in the last decade.I get a call,middle of the night,mom has thrown them out.They come live with me,months,sometimes years at a time.I tell CSR,they instruct me not to pay until court.Without fail,about a week before court,mom suddenly reestablishes contact,tells kids if they don't come live with her,she is going to prison.Court comes,they chunk another 6 months or year on the arrears....then,within a week,she throws the kids out again.I was declared totally disabled,and began recieving SSDI 2 years ago in May,after a routine blood test showed cancer.

CSR KNOWS I am on SSDI,I have letters from them acknowledging that the children have been back and forth and lived with me many times.Hell,SSA KNOWS the children lived with me when she was getting ssdi checks for the kids care,they began to investigate,sure enough,Mom comes crying with the "I'm going to prison" bit.

Point is,They KNOW all of this,but on Feb. 13,although the kids are gone,although they know I am on SSDI,although they know I was never given credit for the children living with me.They know my total income is 780 month.They know my youngest,17 1/2,gets the ssdi check directly in her name,as she has been on her own for well over a year.

Still,they want 6,000 back child support,200 CURRENT child support,insurance for the child(she has medicaid) and they are requesting I be incarcerated until I can expunge myself.My own child is going to court to testify that she has lived with me more than her mother for the last 10 years.

They KNOW,they just don't care.they are blind bureaucrats,who in my case,not only haven't helped,but have hurt the children.My god,the 10s of thousands of dollars I could have spent on MY CHILDREN,instead of having to hand it over to mom,a woman married to a convicted drug dealer,already convicted of fraud.yet,all she does is pick up the phone and presto,all the hounds of hell unleashed.That agency serves no good purpose.Since I am not a millionaire and cannot afford a lawyer every time she threw the kids out.This deaf,dumb,and blind bureacracy simply rolls over you.NEVER think CSR is about the childrens welfare,they are a useless agency that should be abolished.As far as I am concerned,they aid and abet theft.they are a completely destructive organization,they certainly hurt the kids they KNEW I was raising

Dude this is a major necropost. The original thread is over four years old!

 

[Gracie3787]

SSDI,at least in georgia,doesn't appear to stop anything.My kids are grown now.The mother has been banned from food stamps,welfare,and housing for life for fraud already.She has collected ssi or ssdi for years,along with a seperate check for the children.She threw the children out,numerous times.CSR knows this/Once,she even signed a notarised statement terminating her rights.Another,DFCS took them and gave them to me for abuse.

This has happened numerous times in the last decade.I get a call,middle of the night,mom has thrown them out.They come live with me,months,sometimes years at a time.I tell CSR,they instruct me not to pay until court.Without fail,about a week before court,mom suddenly reestablishes contact,tells kids if they don't come live with her,she is going to prison.Court comes,they chunk another 6 months or year on the arrears....then,within a week,she throws the kids out again.I was declared totally disabled,and began recieving SSDI 2 years ago in May,after a routine blood test showed cancer.

CSR KNOWS I am on SSDI,I have letters from them acknowledging that the children have been back and forth and lived with me many times.Hell,SSA KNOWS the children lived with me when she was getting ssdi checks for the kids care,they began to investigate,sure enough,Mom comes crying with the "I'm going to prison" bit.

Point is,They KNOW all of this,but on Feb. 13,although the kids are gone,although they know I am on SSDI,although they know I was never given credit for the children living with me.They know my total income is 780 month.They know my youngest,17 1/2,gets the ssdi check directly in her name,as she has been on her own for well over a year.

Still,they want 6,000 back child support,200 CURRENT child support,insurance for the child(she has medicaid) and they are requesting I be incarcerated until I can expunge myself.My own child is going to court to testify that she has lived with me more than her mother for the last 10 years.

They KNOW,they just don't care.they are blind bureaucrats,who in my case,not only haven't helped,but have hurt the children.My god,the 10s of thousands of dollars I could have spent on MY CHILDREN,instead of having to hand it over to mom,a woman married to a convicted drug dealer,already convicted of fraud.yet,all she does is pick up the phone and presto,all the hounds of hell unleashed.That agency serves no good purpose.Since I am not a millionaire and cannot afford a lawyer every time she threw the kids out.This deaf,dumb,and blind bureacracy simply rolls over you.NEVER think CSR is about the childrens welfare,they are a useless agency that should be abolished.As far as I am concerned,they aid and abet theft.they are a completely destructive organization,they certainly hurt the kids they KNEW I was raising

As others have told you, this thread is over 4 years old- please check the dates on threads before you respond to them.

I was really shocked to see a thread that I started a long time ago, resurrected. Obviously the situation (as in most situations over 4 yrs old) has been worked out.

 

[Silverplum]

Obviously the situation (as in most situations over 4 yrs old) has been worked out.

It's an excellent slice of life. I'm SO glad that things have worked out for you. And see? You have become such a valuable poster here! Two good things.

 

[CJane]

It's an excellent slice of life. I'm SO glad that things have worked out for you. And see? You have become such a valuable poster here! Two good things.

Clearly I didn't know Gracie's history. But I have to say - from "I just got a computer" to "Our resident FL expert" in just a couple of years?

GOOD SHOW!

 

[Silverplum]

Clearly I didn't know Gracie's history. But I have to say - from "I just got a computer" to "Our resident FL expert" in just a couple of years?

GOOD SHOW!

I know! Gracie is a badass. Or is it a goodass?

 

[Gracie3787]

I know! Gracie is a badass. Or is it a goodass?

LOL, I think I'm both, depending on who you ask.

 

[mountainman2008]

Pardon me,I don't know what "hijacking"is.One point that was relevant is "wait for ssdi"That is NOT the case.SSDI is not exempt.Sorry for a new users violation of your format."I'll not bother you again