Sexually Explicit Craigslist Ads during Separation

[tmcshelby]

What is the name of your state? TN

We have been separated for 4 months (divorce papers filed 3 months ago) and since that time my spouse (who, by the way, is nationally very well know) has been posting VERY sexually explicit ads on Craigslist for a "no strings attached" casual relationship and then responds to folks who answer the ads with first and last name.

Because my spouse is nationally known and because our names are inexorably linked as spouses, and because Craigslist is like the bus station bathroom of internet dating services, I was easy to find in cyberspace and be shown these ads, which has caused me a great deal of pain and heartache. We were not sexually active in our marriage.

In what way (if any) might I be able to benefit from my spouse's "indiscretions" in the divorce proceedings?

 

[Gracie3787]

What is the name of your state? TN

We have been separated for 4 months (divorce papers filed 3 months ago) and since that time my spouse (who, by the way, is nationally very well know) has been posting VERY sexually explicit ads on Craigslist for a "no strings attached" casual relationship and then responds to folks who answer the ads with first and last name.

Because my spouse is nationally known and because our names are inexorably linked as spouses, and because Craigslist is like the bus station bathroom of internet dating services, I was easy to find in cyberspace and be shown these ads, which has caused me a great deal of pain and heartache. We were not sexually active in our marriage.

In what way (if any) might I be able to benefit from my spouse's "indiscretions" in the divorce proceedings?

If your spouse is "nationally very well known" I assume that also means that you and spouse have enough money to pay for a consult with a local attorney. You really should do so.

 

[fairisfair]

What is the name of your state? TN

We have been separated for 4 months (divorce papers filed 3 months ago) and since that time my spouse (who, by the way, is nationally very well know) has been posting VERY sexually explicit ads on Craigslist for a "no strings attached" casual relationship and then responds to folks who answer the ads with first and last name.

Because my spouse is nationally known and because our names are inexorably linked as spouses, and because Craigslist is like the bus station bathroom of internet dating services, I was easy to find in cyberspace and be shown these ads, which has caused me a great deal of pain and heartache. We were not sexually active in our marriage.

In what way (if any) might I be able to benefit from my spouse's "indiscretions" in the divorce proceedings?

you are legally separated.

What do you care what he/she is doing??

and how do YOU know how he/she responds to those who answer the ads?

 

[Bali Hai]

If your spouse is "nationally very well known" I assume that also means that you and spouse have enough money to pay for a consult with a local attorney. You really should do so.

I agree 100%, Dr. Phil and his wife certainly can afford lawyers.

 

[tmcshelby]

you are legally separated.

What do you care what he/she is doing??

and how do YOU know how he/she responds to those who answer the ads?

they were sent to me anonymously by someone my spouse corresponded with.

 

[tuffbrk]

Don't understand why you care? You weren't actively intimate in your marriage which would lead me to believe the spark had been gone for some time. If anyone comments to you about his ads, you can always respond that is why I'm getting divorced.

If divorce papers have already been filed, presumably fault/no fault has already been determined so ...guess I don't know what it is that you are actually asking...

 

[VeronicaLodge]

why isnt your divorce final yet?

 

[fairisfair]

they were sent to me anonymously by someone my spouse corresponded with.

uh. . . . okay. . . . ROTFL

 

[Silverplum]

uh. . . . okay. . . . ROTFL

This is two days in a row that I smell "wannabe author testing the waters."