Possible Third Party Interference!

[sour*tart]

What is the name of your state? Texas.

Hi. I am in need of your help. My husband has two beautiful little girls who he cannot see becuase their mom feels im dangerous.

Now my hysband had finally got an attonney and they should be filing soon for contempt with has lasted a good several time. I believe 12 days and 18 hours or however many thursday dinners that is! Now she keeps referencing letters i have sent. Now I have sent a total of three letters. Maybe two. I cant recell. One back In Feb. The other is April. But let me make sure you understand that is had nothing to do with their daughters.

It actually was based on some clothing items and a couple hundred dollars I had loaned her. I simply requested it back. Frankly I have no plans to take her to civil court since it is within the past two years. The money I sent her was way before my husband was even the legal father which of course we had no idea. So whatever her reason she says she did with the money is of no matter that she said she would pay it back.

Now my concern is .. that since these letters have no bearing on the children can she get off on using this obsurb reason to not let my husband have visitation???

I know on some of the bills that the girls get medically. When they come in the mail. I write down on the page how much my husband paid and her part and then file it. I know on one occasion he sent her the bill it was a copy of the one I wrote on. Is that an issue as well?

Any help.. I do appreciate!!!

 

[Bloopy]

It's not really third party interference.

That being said, why would you risk screwing things up for your husband's relationship with his children over some clothes and a couple hundrend dollars?

The tone and content of your letters may reflect you are a hostile threat. Your repeating this contact may as well. Mom could have grounds to restrain you from laying eyes on the children which could impact Dad's custody

 

[sour*tart]

It's not really third party interference.

That being said, why would you risk screwing things up for your husband's relationship with his children over some clothes and a couple hundrend dollars?

The tone and content of your letters may reflect you are a hostile threat. Your repeating this contact may as well. Mom could have grounds to restrain you from laying eyes on the children which could impact Dad's custody

I wasnt trying to risk anything.. But this is ridiculas. I mean she has threatened to kill me. I have yet to make any police report.
I havent asked again. I helped her more than once and the clothing items, Well lets just say you cannot buy these anywhere else ,anymore.
The fact is... as it seems... IT HAS NOTHING to do with their children. I dont call her everytime she makes accusations about me suffocating the children and so forth. As much as that makes me mad I dont bother with it. But to make this about the children and to have them suffer for some letter is insane. I have realized she cannot handle this situation maturly for what it is. What texas law or statuate are you recalling?? I cant find anything on what could be or is third party interference or for a possible restraining order?? Thanks

 

[penelope10]

I wasnt trying to risk anything.. But this is ridiculas. I mean she has threatened to kill me. I have yet to make any police report.
I havent asked again. I helped her more than once and the clothing items, Well lets just say you cannot buy these anywhere else ,anymore.
The fact is... as it seems... IT HAS NOTHING to do with their children. I dont call her everytime she makes accusations about me suffocating the children and so forth. As much as that makes me mad I dont bother with it. But to make this about the children and to have them suffer for some letter is insane. I have realized she cannot handle this situation maturly for what it is. What texas law or statuate are you recalling?? I cant find anything on what could be or is third party interference or for a possible restraining order?? Thanks

Why would you loan money to a "dangerous" woman then wait almost two years and write 3 letters asking her to pay you back...Your story doesn't make sense.

 

[sour*tart]

Why would you loan money to a "dangerous" woman then wait almost two years and write 3 letters asking her to pay you back...Your story doesn't make sense.

It was not two years ago. Only that was the time limit if I were to take it to court. It was last April. I tried to give her time to pay. I didnt have that many issues with her then that have risen NOW. or Latley? She would call before and actually have conversations with me. Why i talked to her I cant tell you. I was being nice.
The clothes I loaned her in December last year. So that was not long at all. She was going to take them off and give them to me but I told her just wash them and give them back next time. Never happened. I do not plan to pursue this but this is her reason for THIS time not giving my husband his visitation..Because I asked for them back. Her father called my husbadn today who lives in CALI and wants to keep the issue out of court. I just dont see how her reasoning is legal. There is a court order in place.

 

[Eekamouse]

There's a lot more in those letters besides her just requesting to be paid back money she lent the mother. She's not telling the whole story at all. That's obvious. If it was just letters requesting she get back some clothes and money she'd lent. she wouldn't be sweating them so hard now.

 

[Bloopy]

I have realized she cannot handle this situation maturly for what it is. What texas law or statuate are you recalling?? I cant find anything on what could be or is third party interference or for a possible restraining order?? Thanks

She can file anything she wants as it is a free country.

If your letters are hostile- I have not read them and don't know- she be able to get a restraining order.

If your letters are as cheery and reasonable as you have been here then you have nothing to worry about.

It's not third party interferece from what you have shared because it does not address the children.

 

[sour*tart]

Well no. Im just asking. I know its crap. Since she found out I was pregnant In April she has refused the children and remarks to me as crazy, dangerous, says I hate her children, all this. She knows that I watch them on Fridays when my husband has them for visitation becuase he works those days. But I would not have to watch them if she picked them up which is well entitled to per the order. So her reasoning of me watching them is really just odd.

 

[sour*tart]

She can file anything she wants as it is a free country.

If your letters are hostile- I have not read them and don't know- she be able to get a restraining order.

If your letters are as cherry and reasonable as you have been here then you have nothing to worry about.

It's not third party interferece from what you have shared because it does not address the children.

Thanks.. No they werent. I used the phrase "I am requesting"rather than give me my s**t back and that whole nonsense. Thank you very much!!

 

[Bloopy]

Thanks.. No they werent.

No they "werent" cheery and reasonable?

Too bad.

 

[sour*tart]

No they "werent" cheery and reasonable?

Too bad.

No I said/meant no they werent hostile! Sorry!

 

[Bloopy]

No I said/meant no they werent hostile! Sorry!

Well then. I should apologize for being a smart arse

Look, she can file what she wants but would have to prove it.

Sending the letters in general HAS complicated things for your hubby even if she is wrong.

Hindsight is 20/20, but the stuff really isn't worth it.

 

[fairisfair]

take the clothes off????

You mean you are talking about one frigging outfit?

grow the he11 up.

and stop harrassing her before your husband loses his parenting time all together.

If she owes you money, and you can prove it, file in small claims.