Mommy Of 3
Junior Member
No, he's not. In his actual words "You are an egg donor to your kids and that's all" and the latest voice mail said "You're a piece of s**t mom". I have never done anything to deserve these things being said to me. The last comment stemmed from sending my son back with a small strip of a sunburn on his back. Very small strip where I missed using the sunscreen. You could tell he was slathered in sunscreen otherwise because he was not burned anywhere else but about a 2 inch by 3 inch spot on his back. I felt so bad just for that spot that the rest of the weekend I was rubbing aloe on it and gave him Tylenol so it wouldn't hurt him. I do not deserve to be called a bad mother because I'm not! I was not neglecting him or deliberately trying to cause him harm. I'm so upset by this because my ex knows that I would never do anything to hurt my children and he says these things because he knows they get to me.
I don't like pointing fingers, but he is the one that smokes in the car with my babies in it and there's nothing I can do about it. My youngest son was a preemie and he has immature lungs and was hospitalized for RSV and he wheezes constantly. Who would smoke in the car with their babies anyway? But for a baby who was has such problems with his lungs??? Wouldn't that be considered abuse?
