What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Colorado
I suspect that I have no recourse, as I suspect that this won't be considered part of joint decision making, but here goes:
My ex-boyfriend and I have joint physical custody (50/50) with joint decision making. I found out yesterday that he has signed her up for karate and soccer, but when I asked him about it, he refused to tell me where, and said, "we'll do our thing on our time with her, you'll do your thing on your time with her." This was never the way things were discussed between us. Last time we spoke about activities, we were talking about putting her in ballet lessons, back in May before we went to court about what school she'd be going to (I won that particular hearing, which I suspect may be the reason for him refusing to allow me to participate in her activities). Am I correct in assuming that while this is bad coparenting, it doesn't go against joint decision-making? I hesitate to put her in other activities on my time with her, as I don't feel its fair that she not be allowed to fully participate, and only be allowed to go every other week, and I'm also concerned that it might cause activity overload for her. If anybody has any insight, whether about joint decision-making or simply about a way that I can bring this up with him that's non-confrontational, I would greatly appreciate it!
Thanks,
Rowan
I suspect that I have no recourse, as I suspect that this won't be considered part of joint decision making, but here goes:
My ex-boyfriend and I have joint physical custody (50/50) with joint decision making. I found out yesterday that he has signed her up for karate and soccer, but when I asked him about it, he refused to tell me where, and said, "we'll do our thing on our time with her, you'll do your thing on your time with her." This was never the way things were discussed between us. Last time we spoke about activities, we were talking about putting her in ballet lessons, back in May before we went to court about what school she'd be going to (I won that particular hearing, which I suspect may be the reason for him refusing to allow me to participate in her activities). Am I correct in assuming that while this is bad coparenting, it doesn't go against joint decision-making? I hesitate to put her in other activities on my time with her, as I don't feel its fair that she not be allowed to fully participate, and only be allowed to go every other week, and I'm also concerned that it might cause activity overload for her. If anybody has any insight, whether about joint decision-making or simply about a way that I can bring this up with him that's non-confrontational, I would greatly appreciate it!
Thanks,
Rowan