Reduce Child Support MI

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

if you can come to an agreement with mediation, then that can be written into an order. If not, then it goes to the referee. Now, the referee can make a ruling. If either party doesn't agree, then you can request a de novo hearing; then it goes to the judge.

 

[CourtClerk]

Thank you! That's exactly what I'm looking for. Will we have to go to court if she won't agree to what the mediator says or vice versa?

YOU will need to stay home and let your husband deal with his legal issues. As you've already been told, there is no WE in this situation, unless you are speaking of your husband and his ex wife.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

YOU will need to stay home and let your husband deal with his legal issues. As you've already been told, there is no WE in this situation, unless you are speaking of your husband and his ex wife.

Thanks CC. I missed that one.

 

[MBuck]

Yes, I'm not planning on going to court. Excuse my error in using "we" again. Although, I do consider us a team.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Overstepparents have been known to have custodial parents lose their status as custodial parents.

Stepparents are welcome to LOVE the children. But, they must respect the boundaries of the PARENTS.

 

[MBuck]

People on here can be pretty awful. My husband and I are researching. He is sitting directly next to me while I type. From now on, I will watch my pronouns. Thanks for focusing on semantics and not the real issue.

 

[MBuck]

Overstepparents have been known to have custodial parents lose their status as custodial parents.

Stepparents are welcome to LOVE the children. But, they must respect the boundaries of the PARENTS.

Thank you for allowing me to love my step-children. It's overly kind of you. I'm aware of my boundaries. It is my husbands idea to take his ex-wife back to court. not mine.

 

[CourtClerk]

People on here can be pretty awful.

Excuse you????

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Thank you for allowing me to love my step-children. It's overly kind of you. I'm aware of my boundaries. It is my husbands idea to take his ex-wife back to court. not mine.

When comments like that are made in COURT, that can be a problem. I realize that you plan to not be there. But, if the X were to subpeona you in court because SHE feels you are overstepping, the use of pronouns could be damning. Much better to have it point out here, rather than in a courtroom. You only get one chance in the courtroom.

 

[CourtClerk]

Thank you for allowing me to love my step-children. It's overly kind of you. I'm aware of my boundaries. It is my husbands idea to take his ex-wife back to court. not mine.

Ok... your attitude leaves something to be desired. If your husband is sitting right next to you, and these are HIS kids, and this is HIS idea, then let HIM do the research.

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

Michigan Child Support Formula
http://courts.michigan.gov/scao/services/focb/mcsf.htm

http://courts.michigan.gov/scao/courtforms/domesticrelations/drindex.htm

 

[CourtClerk]

Michigan Child Support Formula
http://courts.michigan.gov/scao/services/focb/mcsf.htm

http://courts.michigan.gov/scao/courtforms/domesticrelations/drindex.htm

And with that, this thread should close.

 

[Isis1]

how was it that OP was able to look at the lunch account? what is she even doing at the school trying to look for proof of what mom is or is not doing?

my husband was never able to do ANY of that. the school never talked to him ever. only to pass on that I needed to call them. and once when my kids dad forgot to pick them up. even when the oldest was in the principal's office. they still refused to talk to my husband.

i don't know how stepmom was able to see any accounting of the kids

as for vacation...you know there is such a thing as a sugar daddy. i've been to San Francisco twice AND Hawaii once. Went to Sea World, been to dozens of movies. never spent a dime. i can't afford to.

 

[CourtClerk]

how was it that OP was able to look at the lunch account? what is she even doing at the school trying to look for proof of what mom is or is not doing?

my husband was never able to do ANY of that. the school never talked to him ever. only to pass on that I needed to call them. and once when my kids dad forgot to pick them up. even when the oldest was in the principal's office. they still refused to talk to my husband.

i don't know how stepmom was able to see any accounting of the kids

as for vacation...you know there is such a thing as a sugar daddy. i've been to San Francisco twice AND Hawaii once. Went to Sea World, been to dozens of movies. never spent a dime. i can't afford to.

Stop stirring the pot. Looking at a lunch account is easy. If dad deposits money online to the account (which I do for mine), then all she needs is an email address and a password most likely.

you know there is such a thing as a sugar daddy. i've been to San Francisco twice AND Hawaii once. Went to Sea World, been to dozens of movies. never spent a dime. i can't afford to.

I hope you aren't suggesting that you use men for money..... because that's what it sounds like.

I've been out of the country several times without my child. Am I the only one that pays for my own trips? Silverplum????

 

[Isis1]

Stop stirring the pot. Looking at a lunch account is easy. If dad deposits money online to the account (which I do for mine), then all she needs is an email address and a password most likely.


I hope you aren't suggesting that you use men for money..... because that's what it sounds like.

I've been out of the country several times without my child. Am I the only one that pays for my own trips? Silverplum????

mom said she went to the school.


it was all the same man. it was my husband. there's absolutely nothing wrong in someone else treating you if you do not have the money to do it yourself. it's a choice. not illegal.