georgiabelle
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Georgia
I am a 37 y.o. female with a 6 y.o son. I am divorced and am living with my parents to save money at their invitation. My mom has decided after 43 years of marriage to divorce my dad. This was a surprise to all involved. My dad had to move out and my mom verbally abuses me and my son. It has gotten so bad that my dad has told his attorney. My mom is lying to family and neighbors about the situation, my dad, myself, and my brother. She calls me a whore in front of my son. I know the obvious solution is to move out but I am a single mother working part-time to try to raise my son, volunteer at his school, be a licensed substitute teacher, and caregiver to my elderly father and older brother who has an inoperable brain tumor and also lives in the home. My dad had put in the preliminary divorce papers that my mom cannot make my brother and I move out because that was her first intention besides the fact that neither of us has anywhere to go on the spur of the moment and we take care of the house/yard, etc. Can I "disown" my mother as an adult? She threatens to (and has done so) tell lies to my ex and says she will see he gets custody. This is her way of the ultimate hurt to me-she doesn't think of the consequences to her only grandchild. THANKS!
I am a 37 y.o. female with a 6 y.o son. I am divorced and am living with my parents to save money at their invitation. My mom has decided after 43 years of marriage to divorce my dad. This was a surprise to all involved. My dad had to move out and my mom verbally abuses me and my son. It has gotten so bad that my dad has told his attorney. My mom is lying to family and neighbors about the situation, my dad, myself, and my brother. She calls me a whore in front of my son. I know the obvious solution is to move out but I am a single mother working part-time to try to raise my son, volunteer at his school, be a licensed substitute teacher, and caregiver to my elderly father and older brother who has an inoperable brain tumor and also lives in the home. My dad had put in the preliminary divorce papers that my mom cannot make my brother and I move out because that was her first intention besides the fact that neither of us has anywhere to go on the spur of the moment and we take care of the house/yard, etc. Can I "disown" my mother as an adult? She threatens to (and has done so) tell lies to my ex and says she will see he gets custody. This is her way of the ultimate hurt to me-she doesn't think of the consequences to her only grandchild. THANKS!