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Neal1421

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? TN

Ok, it has been a while since I last posted, however there has been an instance that has occured that my husband is not quite sure how to handle.

He received an email from his daughter's teacher last night stating that his daughter has not been in school in the past 7 school days (They started the new semester last Monday, so she has only attended 1 day so far). The teacher told him that he has tried to get in touch with the mother, to no avail and since my husband has been in contact with the teacher on numerous occasions to check on his daughter, he thought he should know or might know what was going on.

Well, he immediately called the school to verify and then called the mother of the child who didn't answer the phone. He then panicked because the last time that he had spoken with his child she was crying uncontrollably and whispering on the phone that she wanted to go live with her dad. That call took place the last Monday, the last day that she was in school. He hasn't heard from his daughter since, although it is in the court order that the child is to call him every Tues. and Thurs. at 7pm. He calls but doesn't get an answer. He's taken her to court before but nothing ever became of it.

Anyway, he gets concerned and calls the hospitals and the child's doctor to see if she had been to the hospital or to the doctor and they all tell him no. In his last effort to get an answer, he called the police and asked them to go by the house, as he still lives 3 hours away, to check on his daughter. When the police arrive, his daughter answers the door and her mother tells them that the child was just sick and that she will be back to school on Monday, so the police left and told him that there was nothing they could do.

He is concerned that this however isn't true. If his daughter was just sick, why didn't the mother call the school or go by to pick up the homework for their daughter? Also, he dropped his daughter off the Sunday before all of this happened and she was fine.

He isn't quite sure what he can do about the situation. Is there anything that he can file to ensure that this doesn't happen again? Is this enough to justify a change in circumstances for the child for him to try to get custody? If not, what can he do? He just wants to make sure that his child is in school when she is supposed to be and if she is sick, especially to the point where she misses 7 school days, that he be notified of such illness.

I've looked into TN truancy laws and this is what I've found:

(1) It is the duty of the principal or teacher of every public, private or parochial school to report promptly to the director of schools, or the director of schools' designated representative, the names of all children who have withdrawn from school, or who have been absent five (5) days (this means an aggregate of five (5) days during the school year and not necessarily five (5) consecutive days) without adequate excuse. Each successive accumulation of five (5) unexcused absences by a student shall also be reported.

(2) Such director of schools shall thereupon serve, or cause to be served, upon the parent, guardian or other person in Tennessee in parental relation to such children unlawfully absent from school, written notice that attendance of such children at school is required. A new notice shall be sent after each successive accumulation of five (5) unexcused absences.

(3) If it appears that, within three (3) days after receipt of the notice, any child, parent, guardian or other person in parental relation has failed to comply with the provisions of this part, the director of schools, in the name of the local school system, shall report the facts of such unlawful attendance to the sheriff, constable, city police officer, district attorney general, or the foreman of the grand jury, who shall proceed against the parent, guardian or other person in parental relation in accordance with the provisions of this part, unless the parent, guardian or person having charge and control of the child shall at once place the child in some day school as aforementioned.



If after she has been served she doesn't come up with a viable excuse and dr's note as to why the child was unable to attend, can he use this against her in court?
Thanks in advance.
 


Neal1421

Senior Member
Is the school starting a truancy case?
Not to his knowledge. The teacher informed him that they had sent a note home to the mother, but had not yet gotten a response yet. She called the school after she was visited by the police and let them know that the child would return Monday (Tuesday since it is a holiday).

If the school doesn't do anything about it, is there nothing he can do? He is just concerned that something is going on in the home that he is unaware of since the last time that he spoke to his daughter she was crying and sounded scared. She didn't sound sick, nor was she sick when he left her on Sunday.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
Not to his knowledge. The teacher informed him that they had sent a note home to the mother, but had not yet gotten a response yet. She called the school after she was visited by the police and let them know that the child would return Monday (Tuesday since it is a holiday).

If the school doesn't do anything about it, is there nothing he can do? He is just concerned that something is going on in the home that he is unaware of since the last time that he spoke to his daughter she was crying and sounded scared. She didn't sound sick, nor was she sick when he left her on Sunday.
According to the law the school starts the truancy case. The parent cannot because the parent would be defending against it. Hubby is just as responsible as mom for daughter being truant. Dad can move for a change in custody if truancy persists.
 

Neal1421

Senior Member
According to the law the school starts the truancy case. The parent cannot because the parent would be defending against it. Hubby is just as responsible as mom for daughter being truant. Dad can move for a change in custody if truancy persists.
Ok, so even though he doesn't have custody he is responsible? I'm not sure if I understand correctly. If the problem does persist, and the school does start a truancy case he could be responsible even though he doesn't know if is going on until the school notifies him?

How is he supposed to ensure that the child gets to school every day if he doesn't have custody? He doesn't even get his biweekly phone calls from the child as he is supposed to. He's gone to court twice over that, the first time because the mother wouldn't keep a phone or give him the number so the judge ordered her to let the child call Tues. & Thurs. When she still didn't adhere to that, he took her back to court and the judge only offered to give him the sixteen missed phone calls and told him he could buy the child a cell phone. He was ordered to pay her attorney fees both times even though she was the one that was wrong. Since she is never punished, only he is by having to pay her attorneys fees each time they are in court, he has chosen not to fight the matter much until now.

He's not sure what is going on with his child when she is not with him. He is concerned with her safety. The mother has had several questionable men in and out of the house. One who the child witnessed him choking her mother and locking her mother in a closet, another who was apparently on drugs. She told us once that she stepped on one of her mom's husband's (ex now) needles and he got really mad at her. Dad called CPS, but they said there was nothing they could do since he had moved out. He moved back in after the investigation was over. The child won't tell him anything and lies when he does talk to her and ask her what is going on at home and why she doesn't call him. She is scared to tell him the truth because of how her mother may punish her.

Ok, since this won't help him with custody he will let it go for now unless something else happened, but doesn't he have the right to know if his child is so sick that she misses 7 days of school?

Is there anything he can do period, or is this a lost cause?
 

Neal1421

Senior Member
I understood that. Maybe I should have been more clear.

Doesn't he have the right to know whether or not if his child is so sick that she misses 7 days of school?

Also, OG said that he is just as responsible as mom for the child being truant. I asked how that could be if he is unaware of the child not being in school until the school actually calls him as he gets no phone calls from the child nor does the mom answer the phone when he calls?

The court order does mention that she has to inform him within 24 hours if the child is taken to the emergency room or admitted into the hospital, but other than that, there is nothing else regarding her medical health.
 

Ohiogal

Queen Bee
I understood that. Maybe I should have been more clear.

Doesn't he have the right to know whether or not if his child is so sick that she misses 7 days of school?

Also, OG said that he is just as responsible as mom for the child being truant. I asked how that could be if he is unaware of the child not being in school until the school actually calls him as he gets no phone calls from the child nor does the mom answer the phone when he calls?

The court order does mention that she has to inform him within 24 hours if the child is taken to the emergency room or admitted into the hospital, but other than that, there is nothing else regarding her medical health.
I was going to answer and then I saw that Mwarren answered. Both parents are legally responsible for their children. Dad needs to have a grasp on what is going on with his child. Including schooling.
 

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