My rights vs theirs

[Sinamenone]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Good evening, I currently live with my fiance. He's 67, I'm 38 & we may or may not get married. What steps can I legally take now in case he has a serious illness or dies? His family & I get along well now, but you know when illnesses or deaths occur, the claws come out. I'm assuming I'll outlive him and want to protect myself in any event. Thanks in advance.

 

[Just Blue]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Good evening, I currently live with my fiance. He's 67, I'm 38 & we may or may not get married. What steps can I legally take now in case he has a serious illness or dies? His family & I get along well now, but you know when illnesses or deaths occur, the claws come out. I'm assuming I'll outlive him and want to protect myself in any event. Thanks in advance.

What steps to what?? Could you please clarify your question?

 

[Antigone*]

What steps to what?? Could you please clarify your question?

I think the OP wants to know if she should have her catty, greedy claws out in an offensive posture, you know in anticipation of the sugar daddy,s departure through the pearly gates.

 

[SIN EATER]

That guy better sleep with one eye open.

She may figure he's dead and dispose of everything before he wakes up.

 

[Dandy Don]

AFTER you are married, ask him if he had prepared a last will and testament that names you as a partial beneficiary and has also named his children as beneficiaries, and has updated any insurance or pension beneficiary designations. Or, talk about these matters before you are married and see what his reaction is. As a surviving spouse you will be entitled by law to a certain portion of the estate depending on how long you are married to him.

 

[msiron]

You want to make sure the house is in both you names 'Tennant's by the Entirety' and make sure you are beneficiary of any life insurance, CD's, Bonds, bank accounts etc... and

of course you will need to be executrix of his will but if you can pull it off just get him to sign everything over to you right now!!!

 

[seniorjudge]

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'Tennant's by the Entirety'
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I've never heard of this.

 

[Antigone*]

I've never heard of this.

Come on SJ, surety you have maybe you just forgoety.

 

[Zigner]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
Good evening, I currently live with my fiance. He's 67, I'm 38 & we may or may not get married.

That's not called a fiance - that's called a bed-buddy (or, in this case a sugardaddy)

 

[cyjeff]

That's not called a fiance - that's called a bed-buddy (or, in this case a sugardaddy)

Let's not get mean...

After all, when I reach 67, I would want one too... no matter WHAT it costs my family when I pass.

I didn't know Hugh Hefner's new "girlfriends" had access to the internet...

 

[seniorjudge]

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I didn't know Hugh Hefner's new "girlfriends" had access to the internet

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They don't. Even if they did, it wouldn't make any difference because all they can do [DELETED BY MODERATOR]!

 

[Zigner]

They don't. Even if they did, it wouldn't make any difference because all they can do [DELETED BY MODERATOR]!

I'm guessing you said something controversial in order to have it deleted by the moderator.

Probably something like "...all they can do is play Boggle in their nightgowns."

 

[Sinamenone]

Thanks from me & my SugarDaddy!

 

[VeronicaLodge]

Let's not get mean...

After all, when I reach 67, I would want one too... no matter WHAT it costs my family when I pass.

I didn't know Hugh Hefner's new "girlfriends" had access to the internet...

oh please, hugh hefner is way over 67 and none of his girlfriends are even close to 38! that is ancient in bunny years

 

[CourtClerk]

I didn't know Hugh Hefner's new "girlfriends" had access to the internet...

Even if they did, this isn't one of them. She was able to spell big words correctly, like "any."