i need help about my son

[owen8472]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Califonia

my son mom is getting deployed to iraq she currently has full custady of my son. she has asked me to go change our custady to joined with me as primary. the court that had the done is in barstow califonia 350 miles away from me and she is in hawaii with my son. i am a disabled vet from due to my service in iraq in 2004. my son is 9 years old he need to atend school and have a parent that is his look over him. what can i do?

here are my questions:
1. can i have the hearing here in my county to change the custady?

2. would it be bettter for me to have full custady or join for her deployment?

3. i currently pay child suport and she makes 9x more money than me if we change the argments would i still have to pay child support?

hope to hear from you soon.

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Califonia

my son mom is getting deployed to iraq she currently has full custady of my son. she has asked me to go change our custady to joined with me as primary. the court that had the done is in barstow califonia 350 miles away from me and she is in hawaii with my son. i am a disabled vet from due to my service in iraq in 2004. my son is 9 years old he need to atend school and have a parent that is his look over him. what can i do?

here are my questions:
1. can i have the hearing here in my county to change the custady?

2. would it be bettter for me to have full custady or join for her deployment?

3. i currently pay child suport and she makes 9x more money than me if we change the argments would i still have to pay child support?

hope to hear from you soon.

Why should she have NO CUSTODY? You would be gaining custody correct? She should then pay you child support if your child is going to be with you in California.