Can my ex get more child support?

[AHA]

I dont give a rats hiney who you were talking to. People come to this board for legal advice, which I said in my post, NOT for people to take pot shots about their lives. I have a life, my "dreamland, program, and fluffyland" is none your business.
BTW, thanks.. I always wanted to be "something else" ANd, at least you kept SOMETHING to your self. I may be afraid of somethings but your version of the truth does not frighten me and I am sure that is likewise.

I don't say anything that isn't true, which is better than just bashing on people like you have done.
How about you let OP have the thread back?! You can start your own bashing thread anytime you want if that is your only purpose for posting, but don't do it in other's threads.
Stay the hell away from me, you need help.

 

[hearts41]

hello again

I don't say anything that isn't true, which is better than just bashing on people like you have done.
How about you let OP have the thread back?! You can start your own bashing thread anytime you want if that is your only purpose for posting, but don't do it in other's threads.
Stay the hell away from me, you need help.

Thanks once again for telling me what I need, at least from your point of view that is. "Bashing", nope, asking you and others to quit yep you bet.
I will gladly stay away from you , I never addressed you in the first place, you posted to me, remember? BTW telling people they need help, and to "stay the hell away from you" is doing EXACTLY what you accuse others of doing.... bashing. Why not end this here and now, huh? Have a terrific day.

 

[hearts41]

The fact is, you're not going to stop anybody from saying what they want, how they want, when they want, and to whom they want. Ironically, by sniping back and forth about how the "nastiness" isn't necessary, you're only contributing to the hostility you say shouldn't exist.

This site doesn't need a hall monitor. That's what the moderator is for. They use their rules, not yours, and if the posts to which you take exception are contrary to those rules they'll disappear.

You are correct.

 

[MichelleGilliam]

Thanks guys for the help, but I'm really done posting here. I will however be praying for those who were unkind. God Bless those of you who choose to help and not judge. Like I said before there is only one judge in life and he is the one who gave me my gorgeous children. Thank you again.

 

[AHA]

Thanks once again for telling me what I need, at least from your point of view that is. "Bashing", nope, asking you and others to quit yep you bet.
I will gladly stay away from you , I never addressed you in the first place, you posted to me, remember? BTW telling people they need help, and to "stay the hell away from you" is doing EXACTLY what you accuse others of doing.... bashing. Why not end this here and now, huh? Have a terrific day.

Wrong, try and remember post #34 again.
You are an aggressor on this thread. I wish you good luck with that, because that must be a real burden.
You are absolutely right, this ends here and now (as opposed to when I asked you to leave me alone and you refused).
Have a nice life!

 

[StampGirl]

The reality for this poster is that she may not be able to afford childcare to be able to work outside the home because of the disabled child. What's the point of working if childcare is more than your take home pay.

What she does need to do is to see if there is assistance available thru the county to help pay for childcare so that she can get better educated in order to get a better paying job.

We can all say, "Why have more children if you can't afford the ones you have?" True. But hind sight is a wonderful thing, but reality is that the children are here - NOW.

My neighbor who didn't want to work outside the home did find a job to work as a legal secretary IN.HER.HOUSE. It gives her the flexibility she needs to run her children here, there and everywhere.

Where there is a will, there is a way.

I am sure she is getting financial assitance from the state and or federal govt if her children are disabled. Which she deserves to stay home and take care of them.

However, she also has a financial obiligation to her other children who do not live with her. That was pointed out to her but she didn't like it.

 

[nextwife]

The reality for this poster is that she may not be able to afford childcare to be able to work outside the home because of the disabled child. What's the point of working if childcare is more than your take home pay.

What she does need to do is to see if there is assistance available thru the county to help pay for childcare so that she can get better educated in order to get a better paying job.

We can all say, "Why have more children if you can't afford the ones you have?" True. But hind sight is a wonderful thing, but reality is that the children are here - NOW.

My neighbor who didn't want to work outside the home did find a job to work as a legal secretary IN.HER.HOUSE. It gives her the flexibility she needs to run her children here, there and everywhere.

Where there is a will, there is a way.

Additionally, ther ARE day programs out there for children with serious medical or developmental issues.

In our country, for example, we have the St Francis Childrens Center, and there are others. Additionally, there are mandates in IEP programs to accomidate children with an assortment of special needs withoin the school setting. My SNs child was attending half days, through the county Early Intervention programs, due to her delays and vision/hearing deficits, at age THREE. It may not bene be necessary for this child to be home with mom all day. Many children with multiple medical/developmental issues can attend various day programs that exist. Our child's attendance in Early Intervention from age two cost us nothing.

 

[hearts41]

good afternoon

Thats true, there are avenues available, schools and other places offer education and assistance to special needs children. My son had an IEP from the time he was a 1st grader, while he was not disabled he did have some learning disabilites and his IEP was a huge help in his education.
With regards to the orginal poster to this thread, one can only assume she is doing her very best for all her children. The courts will more than likely take care of the CS issue, I would assume they will order what the guidelines say.