Move!

[Antigone*]

Your whole attitude and comprehension is wrong.

I'm not offended by your asking questions and inserting yourself into your husband's case. Don't ass-u-me and tell me how I ~feel.~ If I tell you that I'm a stepparent, don't you feel like an ass? You should. I don't dislike stepparents: that would be moronic.

~Feelings~ have nothing to do with this: it's all a matter of the legal issues. Legally, you have no place in this, and never will, regardless of your choice to involve yourself via driving/typing/whatever. We help you learn that. You're welcome.

Furthermore, if your H has an attorney, he is outside our target for volunteering: we (most of us) are here to help people without attorneys.

Well-spoken ~ for all us stepmom's out there!!!! We need to know and respect our place when it come to the kids.

 

[emeraldeyedmama]

Your whole attitude and comprehension is wrong.

I'm not offended by your asking questions and inserting yourself into your husband's case. Don't ass-u-me and tell me how I ~feel.~ If I tell you that I'm a stepparent, don't you feel like an ass? You should. I don't dislike stepparents: that would be moronic.

~Feelings~ have nothing to do with this: it's all a matter of the legal issues. Legally, you have no place in this, and never will, regardless of your choice to involve yourself via driving/typing/whatever. We help you learn that. You're welcome.

Furthermore, if your H has an attorney, he is outside our target for volunteering: we (most of us) are here to help people without attorneys.

I was not aplogizing to you but the poster who started this. I didn't say anything about my feelings either. I wasn't saying you assumed. I assumed what OG meant was it would probably stay the same. The whole ora of alot of posters is against Stepparents. Legally isn't what im doing, but what happens by a move of one parent.
And I am not inserting myself anywhere but I am and will be having to pick up and drop of if thats what it comes down to. That is what I was asking about so that any preparation could be handled.
And no I dont feel like an ass.

 

[emeraldeyedmama]

Well-spoken ~ for all us stepmom's out there!!!! We need to know and respect our place when it come to the kids.

So if you think or legally know im disrespecting my place please tell me how I am?
And when you say a stepmom needs to know or respect her place that sounds like your referring to a dog. Do we need obediance classes too?
You guys have made this bigger than what it is.
I am not overstepping. It's a fact I will have to since my husband will work which is fine. I love the girls and his ex;s bf will be doing it on her part as well. Im not the only one.


My question had nothing to do with "my place or respecting it"