OK, Let me back up
When I was a single mom, FAFSA only requires MY IRS return. When I got married, FAFSA REQUIRES that the step-parent submit THEIR IRS (if it's joint, just the joint one obviously). This is a REQUIREMENT. They are not billing the step-parent, but they need to see the whole household income so they know what 'expendable" income the bio-parent has. PA does not recognize separation, so I can't say "we're separated"....doesn't matter.
No FAFSA grant/loan money will be considered until the students file is complete.
Hubby has not filed in 9 years, but he does not know that I am aware of that...(it'd be too turbulant to bring up). I am not asking for money - I just want the form to complete the file.
If hubby doesn't submit the form, my son/I will be paying full price tuition. I doubt hubby would be forced to pay it back, but I'm mad at the situation he has put us in.