disturbeddreame
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (FL)?
we signed a consent order, says visitation supervised first (dd doesnt know dad and is very clingy) until she decides to go with him without crying, also back child support and child support were agreed to.
DD's dad's family is toxic. he admits this but hopes they will change. (DD's dad's family have never asked to see her and look the other way if we enter the same grocery store)
so dad and I want an addendum. granting him additional visitation on birthdays holidays etc. because as the order stands it only mentions how much time a week. AND saying that during the visits, DD will not be allowed around any third parties without my permission.
the reasoning is that IF dd's dad's family comes around and want a relationship with her, and to stop spitting when they pass her in the street, that I will not object to them seeing her.
BUT. my question is, if we both sign this addendum, is it really worth it if he can just go back to court at some point and time and petition for it to be modified?
my prob is that its hard for me to encourage their bonding at our visits ("here baby throw the ball to dad too") when Im scared he's going to toss her to the wolves that have hated her since her birth because he wants it to work and "hope" they love her as he does.
we signed a consent order, says visitation supervised first (dd doesnt know dad and is very clingy) until she decides to go with him without crying, also back child support and child support were agreed to.
DD's dad's family is toxic. he admits this but hopes they will change. (DD's dad's family have never asked to see her and look the other way if we enter the same grocery store)
so dad and I want an addendum. granting him additional visitation on birthdays holidays etc. because as the order stands it only mentions how much time a week. AND saying that during the visits, DD will not be allowed around any third parties without my permission.
the reasoning is that IF dd's dad's family comes around and want a relationship with her, and to stop spitting when they pass her in the street, that I will not object to them seeing her.
BUT. my question is, if we both sign this addendum, is it really worth it if he can just go back to court at some point and time and petition for it to be modified?
my prob is that its hard for me to encourage their bonding at our visits ("here baby throw the ball to dad too") when Im scared he's going to toss her to the wolves that have hated her since her birth because he wants it to work and "hope" they love her as he does.
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