O.k. last week I posted that I didn't get to have my midweek visit. Well I left a message on mom's cell stating that if she did not contact me about interfering with my time I was gonna file contempt on her. She did call later that night and by saturday I had my daughter for a few hrs. mom said that I couldn't start my summer parenting time yet because she has plans now with daughter.
When I did get my daughter on saturday her step-grandma dropped her off and daughter told me right away without me asking that her mom was at a "DENTIST APPT". So I was alright with that but then this week rolls around and her staep grandma dropped off again and picked too. Daughter again said that mom was "SHOPPING". Which all this I do not beleive one bit.
Daughter told my neighbor friend that STEPDAD was pissed off at daughter because she didn't say anything to me about serving the Rrestraining order. She also stated that she was staying with her "STEP-GRANDMA" while mom was in north carolina setting up new home. My poor daughter has so many lies built up in her that she is ready to exploded. I totally understand why she won't tell me the truth because she fears her mom will be mad at her. It definitely isn't fair for her to feel this way.
So tonight I sent my ex a text message asking where my daughter was. She replied with "WHY" I stated that I had a legal right to know. When I text her it was kinda late but I figured if she was not a sleep then she would reply which she did. I left the texting alone for the night and figured I would call her tomorrow.
Are you grilling your daugther about where Mum is everytime you have her now? if so, STOP IT, that grilling will force her to lie.. is you dont ask her anything, she wont be forced to lie. So now you have your daugther for your regular parenting time, if you want your summer vacation time, give mum the 60 day notice that is required. Until that happens, where you think Mum may be on her legitimate parenting time, who the child is with (if there is no FROR) is none of your business. Have you given Mum the required 60 day notice to exercist your summer vacation time?
When I did get my daughter on saturday her step-grandma dropped her off and daughter told me right away without me asking that her mom was at a "DENTIST APPT". So I was alright with that but then this week rolls around and her staep grandma dropped off again and picked too. Daughter again said that mom was "SHOPPING". Which all this I do not beleive one bit.
Daughter told my neighbor friend that STEPDAD was pissed off at daughter because she didn't say anything to me about serving the Rrestraining order. She also stated that she was staying with her "STEP-GRANDMA" while mom was in north carolina setting up new home. My poor daughter has so many lies built up in her that she is ready to exploded. I totally understand why she won't tell me the truth because she fears her mom will be mad at her. It definitely isn't fair for her to feel this way.
So tonight I sent my ex a text message asking where my daughter was. She replied with "WHY" I stated that I had a legal right to know. When I text her it was kinda late but I figured if she was not a sleep then she would reply which she did. I left the texting alone for the night and figured I would call her tomorrow.
Are you grilling your daugther about where Mum is everytime you have her now? if so, STOP IT, that grilling will force her to lie.. is you dont ask her anything, she wont be forced to lie. So now you have your daugther for your regular parenting time, if you want your summer vacation time, give mum the 60 day notice that is required. Until that happens, where you think Mum may be on her legitimate parenting time, who the child is with (if there is no FROR) is none of your business. Have you given Mum the required 60 day notice to exercist your summer vacation time?
