I am 19, dating a 16 year old.

[Antigone*]

Okay. I would like my response to be read with no prejudgements or bias. Our whole relationship (meaning friendship up until now) has been based upon the Lord. We began our friendship when she was a freshman. In her sophomore year, she came to me with advice about a guy that was giving her problems. I came to find out every intimate detail of her life in that month, and, in the months following, Christ worked through me to help her. To save her. At the point she entered my life for advice, she found herself nearing the point of suicide, and she cut herself for years prior. I came to help her to change from that girl who hated herself, to the woman who loved herself and built herself up in the Lord every day.
It wasn't until after this that my feelings of admiration and love for her revealed themselves to me. The Lord told my sister, her, and me at this point that Hannah and I would commence a romantic relationship in Him and His will. We then began a relationship, not based upon infatuation or personal desire, but out of true love for Jesus Christ and out of the yearning for what is best for each other. Nearing the end of our last summer, God promised us we would be together until at least December. In knowing this, God gave us the choice to introduce a level of physicality to our relationship. We did not begin to have sex, nor have we done so since then. Within the next month, God made it clear to me that this woman is made for me, she is my wife. I did not bring this up to her, for I know that God works in individuals at different times. Three weeks later, He finally made it clear to her that she and I would marry.
Now, after discussing with the Lord Jesus Christ, we have indeed arrived at the choice of whether to have sex or not. Being Christians, we are devout to the word of the Lord. Therefore, we are justified through Christ in the following reasons:
One, God transcends time, if she is meant for me as a wife, she IS, indeed, my wife.
Two, we have promised our covenant to each other, with our two friends in the Lord as witnesses, with the Lord Jesus Christ.
Three, we have faith in each other and Christ, we have hope in this life with Him, and we truly love each other. Love never fails. We will succeed.
Four, we are justified under the word of Christ, for, in Him, the most beautiful and perfect plan will always happen.
We have chosen to embrace His good and perfect will for our lives. She, in no way, is a child. She is so mature. She is a very beautiful woman, in whom resides the peace and love of Christ. Being an adult is not judged upon age, it is judged by God. God has promised her to me, and I her. He has instilled in us His will and entrusted us with His faith in us and our choice, as we are in Him. 1 Timothy 4:12 states "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity." Therefore, I speak not in vain, but as a son and beloved disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ, in whom there is perfection. You may not discount my words based upon my age alone. Believe me not, if you will, for the Lord Jesus Christ knows all and hopes all things, and His opinion is all that matters. I hold not the necessity to prove myself nor the Lord Jesus Christ to anyone.

If I were you, I'd be worried because as much as I believe Christ is my saviour and yours. He isn't going to come down from heaven to save you when you're in jail and Bubba tells you to bend over.

 

[across0890]

Sex outside of marriage is christian values? Really? Your not hearing the Lord boy. Your hearing your own selfish desires. Oh and I believe Christ said Give unto Ceaser that which is his. You are suppose to obey the laws of the land. You have sex with her you are breaking those laws. Please dont you dare warp what you are doing into any kind of christ based excuse. SHE IS A CHILD I dont care how mature you think she is. LEGALLY she is a child. So reign in your hormones stop voicing your hypocrosies and back the heck off the baby

I believe you misunderstand me. I come here not to justify a sexual or selfish desire. I come here to understand the laws of the land. I posed a question based upon legality, not morality. She is my wife in the eyes of the Lord, so sex with her would not be out of marriage. I desire sex with her because I love her, because I am in love with her, because she and I both long for that connection that the Lord made for a husband and wife. We yearn to be one, together. I need not prove myself to you.

 

[frylover]

I know this is a legal site and he got his legal answer in regards to sexual activity with this girl....

BUT, I gotta say this! I don't believe I have EVER heard anyone use God as a justification for having sex with anyone outside of marriage. Until now.

 

[Antigone*]

I know this is a legal site and he got his legal answer in regards to sexual activity with this girl....

BUT, I gotta say this! I don't believe I have EVER heard anyone use God as a justification for having sex with anyone outside of marriage. Until now.

Haven't you ever heard of Warren Jeff or David Kouresh? That is just two of the fools who come to mind. I can't remember the name of the idiot who said that the world would come to an end on 10/31/2007. He did the same thing ~ God made the women and girls sleep with only him.

 

[Hisbabygirl77]

Ok again she is not YOUR WIFE. Because as the bible says if we are going to throwing that in there. YOU MUST OBEY THE LAWS OF YOUR LAND AND YOU ARE NOT LEGALLY MARRIED. So no she is not your WIFE IN GODS EYES. Now when God tells you to kill people please dont listen to him.

 

[cyjeff]

Okay. I would like my response to be read with no prejudgements or bias. Our whole relationship (meaning friendship up until now) has been based upon the Lord.

Save it.

Do you have ANY idea how many people come on here saying that they want to have sex with children in a Godly or spiritual way?

Maybe you have a different version of the Bible than I do...

We began our friendship when she was a freshman. In her sophomore year, she came to me with advice about a guy that was giving her problems. I came to find out every intimate detail of her life in that month, and, in the months following, Christ worked through me to help her.

Wow.

Really?

To save her

Hmmm....

At the point she entered my life for advice, she found herself nearing the point of suicide, and she cut herself for years prior. I came to help her to change from that girl who hated herself, to the woman who loved herself and built herself up in the Lord every day.

Did Christ ever tell you to find her a really good therapist that might have actually helped her?

It wasn't until after this that my feelings of admiration and love for her revealed themselves to me. The Lord told my sister, her, and me at this point that Hannah and I would commence a romantic relationship in Him and His will.

Really? Did God tell you by email or telephone?

The Burning Bush is SOOOOOO BC.

Yes, I am being sarcastic. I know of NO ONE that will buy the whole "God told me I should have a sexual relationship with a child".

That is perverted and wrong. That ain't God you are listening to, kid.

We then began a relationship, not based upon infatuation or personal desire, but out of true love for Jesus Christ and out of the yearning for what is best for each other.

You must be a hoot at parties.

Nearing the end of our last summer, God promised us we would be together until at least December.

So the King of Kings and Lord of Lords is now acting as your social secretary?

Kind of a demotion, isn't it?

In knowing this, God gave us the choice to introduce a level of physicality to our relationship.

Maybe He just wanted to watch?

Yes, I am trying to show you how absolutely this whole "God told us to have sex" thing is.

You need counseling and therapy. Really.

We did not begin to have sex, nor have we done so since then. Within the next month, God made it clear to me that this woman is made for me, she is my wife.

A social secretary and a matchmaker. It is a wonder that God has time to make a decent sunset anymore.

You do, of course, realize that you are completely delusional. God really doesn't interfere in people's love lives very much. Tends to undo the opportunity to express "free will".

I did not bring this up to her, for I know that God works in individuals at different times. Three weeks later, He finally made it clear to her that she and I would marry.

Did he find you a good caterer??

Now, after discussing with the Lord Jesus Christ, we have indeed arrived at the choice of whether to have sex or not.

And there it is.... God wants us to have sex.

I guess everything else you has supposedly read in the Bible is for other people????? I don't remember God giving the ten commandments to Moses with the codicil "well, except when kids what to get BUSY."

Being Christians, we are devout to the word of the Lord.

More around the hormones of the loins.....

Therefore, we are justified through Christ in the following reasons:
One, God transcends time, if she is meant for me as a wife, she IS, indeed, my wife.

Again, God isn't in the matchmaking business. And, since He has set down some pretty strong words about sex outside of marriage, I would start there.

Two, we have promised our covenant to each other, with our two friends in the Lord as witnesses, with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Oh, so you and a couple of buds decided to have a pretend ceremony in the woods or something.

Damn, kid. You really are delusional. Repeat, seek help.

Three, we have faith in each other and Christ, we have hope in this life with Him, and we truly love each other. Love never fails. We will succeed.

Let me help you here.

How much love do you think she will have for you when you get out of prison? After being your roommate's boyfriend for a number of years?

Four, we are justified under the word of Christ, for, in Him, the most beautiful and perfect plan will always happen.

It is the height of blasphemy to pretend to understand the word of God.. especially to commit a sin of the flesh with a child.

We have chosen to embrace His good and perfect will for our lives. She, in no way, is a child.

She's young enough to fall for the whole "God said we should have sex" thing.

She is so mature. She is a very beautiful woman, in whom resides the peace and love of Christ.

Nope, she is a child. Legally.

Being an adult is not judged upon age, it is judged by God.

Nope... it is judged by statute.

God has promised her to me, and I her.

Imagine what that note would be worth on ebay.

He has instilled in us His will and entrusted us with His faith in us and our choice, as we are in Him. 1 Timothy 4:12 states "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity."

So, you are going to celebrate her purity by schtupping her?

Therefore, I speak not in vain, but as a son and beloved disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ, in whom there is perfection.

And who talks to you and tells you to have sex with children. We must know different Jesus Christs... mine was a carpenter with a beard. I am guessing yours owns an autobody shop in LaJolla.

You may not discount my words based upon my age alone.

Watch me.

And the judge, and the prosecutor, and the jury, and the parents.... and your new love toy, Bob.

Believe me not, if you will, for the Lord Jesus Christ knows all and hopes all things, and His opinion is all that matters.

And I am pretty sure he thinks you are full of crap.

I hold not the necessity to prove myself nor the Lord Jesus Christ to anyone.

Anyone that would use Christ words as a way to justify raping a child is beneath contempt.

Do you have any idea how many false prophets said they heard God's word just to get laid?

You are not even original... you just found a bunch of children that you could manipulate with your false prophesy and worldly ways...

Oh, and that are really horny and want a way to make schtupping okay. I am guessing that you blessed the union of the OTHER two children during your little woodland ceremony so that they could start doing the sweaty.

Please.... get help. This whole delusions of grandeur thing is just repugnant.

 

[Isis1]

Okay. I would like my response to be read with no prejudgements or bias. Our whole relationship (meaning friendship up until now) has been based upon the Lord. We began our friendship when she was a freshman. In her sophomore year, she came to me with advice about a guy that was giving her problems. I came to find out every intimate detail of her life in that month, and, in the months following, Christ worked through me to help her. To save her. At the point she entered my life for advice, she found herself nearing the point of suicide, and she cut herself for years prior. I came to help her to change from that girl who hated herself, to the woman who loved herself and built herself up in the Lord every day.
It wasn't until after this that my feelings of admiration and love for her revealed themselves to me. The Lord told my sister, her, and me at this point that Hannah and I would commence a romantic relationship in Him and His will. We then began a relationship, not based upon infatuation or personal desire, but out of true love for Jesus Christ and out of the yearning for what is best for each other. Nearing the end of our last summer, God promised us we would be together until at least December. In knowing this, God gave us the choice to introduce a level of physicality to our relationship. We did not begin to have sex, nor have we done so since then. Within the next month, God made it clear to me that this woman is made for me, she is my wife. I did not bring this up to her, for I know that God works in individuals at different times. Three weeks later, He finally made it clear to her that she and I would marry.
Now, after discussing with the Lord Jesus Christ, we have indeed arrived at the choice of whether to have sex or not. Being Christians, we are devout to the word of the Lord. Therefore, we are justified through Christ in the following reasons:
One, God transcends time, if she is meant for me as a wife, she IS, indeed, my wife.
Two, we have promised our covenant to each other, with our two friends in the Lord as witnesses, with the Lord Jesus Christ.
Three, we have faith in each other and Christ, we have hope in this life with Him, and we truly love each other. Love never fails. We will succeed.
Four, we are justified under the word of Christ, for, in Him, the most beautiful and perfect plan will always happen.
We have chosen to embrace His good and perfect will for our lives. She, in no way, is a child. She is so mature. She is a very beautiful woman, in whom resides the peace and love of Christ. Being an adult is not judged upon age, it is judged by God. God has promised her to me, and I her. He has instilled in us His will and entrusted us with His faith in us and our choice, as we are in Him. 1 Timothy 4:12 states "Let no one despise your youth, but be an example to the believers in word, in conduct, in love, in spirit, in faith, in purity." Therefore, I speak not in vain, but as a son and beloved disciple of the Lord Jesus Christ, in whom there is perfection. You may not discount my words based upon my age alone. Believe me not, if you will, for the Lord Jesus Christ knows all and hopes all things, and His opinion is all that matters. I hold not the necessity to prove myself nor the Lord Jesus Christ to anyone.

oh good grief. i think i'm going to be sick.

ETA:

holy merciful heavens!! did i read that right? god told you, you will be together until the end of december....he is only sanctioning the "marriage" until then? so he's going to authorize a divorce?


:O:O:O:O

 

[You Are Guilty]

across0890, I have read your posts and I cannot agree with your reasoning more. However, I have some news for you. The Lord came to me while I was reading your post and He told me that you are destined to be my wife, at least for the next 30 days. Therefore, because I am the Lord's servant, as you are yourself, I would appreciate if you could send me both your address and a good time for me to swing by to have some of the Lord's sex with you. (Remember, the Lord said all this, so it's OK. Especially since we're already married in the eyes of the Lord, it's all good).

Can't wait to see you!

 

[cyjeff]

I believe you misunderstand me. I come here not to justify a sexual or selfish desire. I come here to understand the laws of the land. I posed a question based upon legality, not morality. She is my wife in the eyes of the Lord, so sex with her would not be out of marriage. I desire sex with her because I love her, because I am in love with her, because she and I both long for that connection that the Lord made for a husband and wife. We yearn to be one, together. I need not prove myself to you.

Uh huh.

Legally, she is a child.
Legally, you are not married to said child.
Legally, you are going to prison if you have sex with said child.

Morally, you are a delusional false prophet that figured out that telling little girls that God wants them to have sex works. You are a waste of skin.

Judgment is coming... in your case, twice. I wouldn't look forward to either one.

 

[Antigone*]

across0890, I have read your posts and I cannot agree with your reasoning more. However, I have some news for you. The Lord came to me while I was reading your post and He told me that you are destined to be my wife, at least for the next 30 days. Therefore, because I am the Lord's servant, as you are yourself, I would appreciate if you could send me both your address and a good time for me to swing by to have some of the Lord's sex with you. (Remember, the Lord said all this, so it's OK. Especially since we're already married in the eyes of the Lord, it's all good).

Can't wait to see you!

EWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW YAG!!!!!

My image of you just went out the freakin window!!!! Say it isn't so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[cyjeff]

oh good grief. i think i'm going to be sick.

ETA:

holy merciful heavens!! did i read that right? god told you, you will be together until the end of december....he is only sanctioning the "marriage" until then? so he's going to authorize a divorce?


:O:O:O:O

Well, God is smart enough to realize that he wouldn't want to have to buy her a Christmas present....

 

[Isis1]

across0890, I have read your posts and I cannot agree with your reasoning more. However, I have some news for you. The Lord came to me while I was reading your post and He told me that you are destined to be my wife, at least for the next 30 days. Therefore, because I am the Lord's servant, as you are yourself, I would appreciate if you could send me both your address and a good time for me to swing by to have some of the Lord's sex with you. (Remember, the Lord said all this, so it's OK. Especially since we're already married in the eyes of the Lord, it's all good).

Can't wait to see you!

you owe me a some papertowels!!!

 

[cbg]

I am a 19 year old boy and I am dating a 16 year old girl. We are planning on having sex. Is this legal in Colorado?

Simple answer - no. 16 is below the age of consent in CO. She cannot legally consent to sex. Period. Even if mom and dad rent the hotel room and buy you the condoms.

Is that clear enough for you?

 

[cyjeff]

I am a 19 year old boy and I am dating a 16 year old girl. We are planning on having sex. Is this legal in Colorado?

Simple answer - no. 16 is below the age of consent in CO. She cannot legally consent to sex. Period. Even if mom and dad rent the hotel room and buy you the condoms.

Is that clear enough for you?

What if Jesus said it was okay?

 

[Isis1]

What if Jesus said it was okay?

well, that's not fair. jesus never had sex. unless of course if you go with the DiVinci Code theory. i'd rather hear from God directly. now the holy sprit can schedule a phone call with me, but i'd rather get it from God. even in writing would be great. can i hire a court reporter for that? something to show the judge when he tried to prosecute me. or would that have to be notarized? who pays for the notary? does God come to me, or do i go to him? how about if i subpeonaed God? how much do you think he would charge to show up to testify? would i have to pay for transportation too? and if a child is conceived during this God Authorized temp union, then can i force God to pay child support? would he have visitation rights? then what happens if i change my mind and want to raise my child athesist? is everything retracted?