Attorney fees by noncustodial parent

[daughtercustody]

come on people- they got their order in Feb of this year......she had her opportunity to challenge him on this issue- she needs current proof

she is stating false accusations on me, the last time i had my daughter was in April, she was upset because she didn't want me to go to my brother son's 1st b-day party because she doesn't get along with his girlfriend anymore, she was so upset and hasn't let me have her, so every wkd i would have to get my daughter i would call her and she wouldn't answer so i made police rpts, one of the wkds it was mother's day, when the officer called her,her response was "it's mother's day i don't feel like driving up there" so she didn't even bring up the fact that she was accusing me....So what do you think I should do, get statement of relatives and friends of how i am with my daughter when she is in my care?

 

[waitinMd]

did you pass all test, until when did you guys have to both take the test, after how many tests?

I passed every test, but I was not accused of being on drugs, I accused her, I did not have any proof at all, I just said it in a hearing. The judge made us both go.

Each test was 145.00 every 90 days for 1 year. After 4 tests that were negative my atty asked the court that I be relieved of the drug testing. Hers were all positive for drugs, she was ordered to continuing taking the test, plus he added a urine test to her hair follicle tests.

 

[Isis1]

personally, i'd take the freaking test. just to make the other party look like an idiot. but then i have an attitude problem. and i'd request that if i pass every single test, the other party has to reimburse me for the costs just for wasting the courts time.

 

[waitinMd]

personally, i'd take the freaking test. just to make the other party look like an idiot. but then i have an attitude problem. and i'd request that if i pass every single test, the other party has to reimburse me for the costs just for wasting the courts time.

I agree with Is... just go take the test.... most labs will give you a hair follicle test with either a court order, or a doctors order. Have the results sent to your doctor and your lawyer so they do not question the validity... and that should be the end of it.

 

[loadmaster]

I'll take it but i think if i can't take a periodically urine test, i can do that.

They can only ask you to take a hair follicle test, they can order you to take a urine test. Unless you are absolutelly sure what you have taken in the last 6 months, I wouldnt take the follicle test. If you have happened to take a medication you dont have a script for, (it will show up on the follicle test) you are sunk.

 

[Proserpina]

They can only ask you to take a hair follicle test, they can order you to take a urine test. Unless you are absolutelly sure what you have taken in the last 6 months, I wouldnt take the follicle test. If you have happened to take a medication you dont have a script for, (it will show up on the follicle test) you are sunk.

The court absolutely can order a follicle test. Just not in CA.

(I don't want anyone to feel that courts are unable to order follicle testing)

 

[Isis1]

The court absolutely can order a follicle test. Just not in CA.

(I don't want anyone to feel that courts are unable to order follicle testing)

yeah, that's what i had been reading all over the place today. court ordered follicle testing.

 

[waitinMd]

They can only ask you to take a hair follicle test, they can order you to take a urine test. Unless you are absolutelly sure what you have taken in the last 6 months, I wouldnt take the follicle test. If you have happened to take a medication you dont have a script for, (it will show up on the follicle test) you are sunk.

False. You can be ordered to take a hair follicle test. In fact, Judges would rather it be a HFT.

And if you are taking drugs you don't have a script for, then you are taking drugs....

HFT do not cover all drugs. That is why the Judge ordered my ex to do a HFT AND a urine test.

 

[loadmaster]

The court absolutely can order a follicle test. Just not in CA.

(I don't want anyone to feel that courts are unable to order follicle testing)

Sorry I disagree, I was asked to take a hair follicle test, I refused and then ordered to take a urine test. Judge told the other party she could not order that I take a follicle test, only a urine.

My case is in CA.

 

[Isis1]

Sorry I disagree, I was asked to take a hair follicle test, I refused and then ordered to take a urine test. Judge told the other party she could not order that I take a follicle test, only a urine.

did you have a history of drug use?

 

[waitinMd]

Sorry I disagree, I was asked to take a hair follicle test, I refused and then ordered to take a urine test. Judge told the other party she could not order that I take a follicle test, only a urine.

Maybe you saw a Master, or there were other circumstances that the Judge would not order one, but I don't know a state that has a rule saying that a judge can't order a HFT.

PLUS.. if HER atty filed a motion requesting a HFT, then I would think the atty would KNOW the local rules and be aware that his county does in fact order HFT. If I were worrying about as much as the OP obviously is, I would just go get it over with.

To refuse the test is stupid if you don't have anything to worry about anyway.

 

[stealth2]

I'm still waiting to hear if OP actually went to pick the kid up. If he didn't show up at the p/u location.... he's SOL.

 

[daughtercustody]

I passed every test, but I was not accused of being on drugs, I accused her, I did not have any proof at all, I just said it in a hearing. The judge made us both go.

Each test was 145.00 every 90 days for 1 year. After 4 tests that were negative my atty asked the court that I be relieved of the drug testing. Hers were all positive for drugs, she was ordered to continuing taking the test, plus he added a urine test to her hair follicle tests.

so after she showed as positive, im going to request personally when i see the judge(if i get a chance) for her to take one as well, cuz she is a really angry person and has split personalities...but once her test came out positive did her visitations get reduce and did she get supervised visitations???

 

[daughtercustody]

They can only ask you to take a hair follicle test, they can order you to take a urine test. Unless you are absolutelly sure what you have taken in the last 6 months, I wouldnt take the follicle test. If you have happened to take a medication you dont have a script for, (it will show up on the follicle test) you are sunk.

what court did you go too? where you located at?

 

[LdiJ]

she is stating false accusations on me, the last time i had my daughter was in April, she was upset because she didn't want me to go to my brother son's 1st b-day party because she doesn't get along with his girlfriend anymore, she was so upset and hasn't let me have her, so every wkd i would have to get my daughter i would call her and she wouldn't answer so i made police rpts, one of the wkds it was mother's day, when the officer called her,her response was "it's mother's day i don't feel like driving up there" so she didn't even bring up the fact that she was accusing me....So what do you think I should do, get statement of relatives and friends of how i am with my daughter when she is in my care?

I have to admit that getting the police involved on Mother's Day weekend was more than a little bit over the top dad...I hope you didn't include that one in your case, because odds are that it wasn't actually your weekend. Almost all standard guidelines/court orders address Mother's Day/Father's Day.