allwipedout
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What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Oregon
(While my daughter and I have been living in Florida for approximately 10 years, the custody case took place in Oregon.)
In my custody papers it states that I have "sole care, custody and control of the minor child".
At the time of our custody determination, I created our Parenting Plan, which included visitation for Grandparents as I wanted to ensure that my father would be able to see my daughter while she was visiting her Father for the summers, etc. So, Grandparents were purposefully granted visitation rights. My ex also had a stipulation regarding phone contact included in the Court Order that states:
"Any person having residential time with XXXX on a Sunday evening shall keep the phone line free each Sunday from 7 pm to 8pm, according to the time zone in which XXXX is located, and shall make XXXX available for telephone calls from the child's other relatives who have been granted visitation or residential time with XXXX. In addition, XXXX's relatives shall have the right to telephone the child during reasonable hours and with reasonable frequency."
Due my daughter's frequent traveling and that we wanted her to be able to communicate with her family and friends on a regular basis my husband and I bought her a cell phone several years ago, and there really has not been a problem with communication until recently. So, if anyone wants to speak with my daughter, she has her own phone number for them to contact her at.
My question is, does the wording of the Court Order make it so that my daughter has to speak with her Grandparents whenever they call? Or does she have to talk to them every Sunday night if they call at the directed time?
My next question is regarding school issues. This last school year I have started homeschooling my kids, and so far things have gone well, but my daughter's Father and his parents are putting pressure on my daughter to go back to public school for high school. While I did speak with the Father before the final decision was made to homeschool our daughter, and he agreed to doing so, he wants her to go back to public school for high school. If the Father does not agree to her continuing homeschool once she reaches high school age, do I have to put her back into public school?
Thank you very much for any advice you can provide!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
(While my daughter and I have been living in Florida for approximately 10 years, the custody case took place in Oregon.)
In my custody papers it states that I have "sole care, custody and control of the minor child".
At the time of our custody determination, I created our Parenting Plan, which included visitation for Grandparents as I wanted to ensure that my father would be able to see my daughter while she was visiting her Father for the summers, etc. So, Grandparents were purposefully granted visitation rights. My ex also had a stipulation regarding phone contact included in the Court Order that states:
"Any person having residential time with XXXX on a Sunday evening shall keep the phone line free each Sunday from 7 pm to 8pm, according to the time zone in which XXXX is located, and shall make XXXX available for telephone calls from the child's other relatives who have been granted visitation or residential time with XXXX. In addition, XXXX's relatives shall have the right to telephone the child during reasonable hours and with reasonable frequency."
Due my daughter's frequent traveling and that we wanted her to be able to communicate with her family and friends on a regular basis my husband and I bought her a cell phone several years ago, and there really has not been a problem with communication until recently. So, if anyone wants to speak with my daughter, she has her own phone number for them to contact her at.
My question is, does the wording of the Court Order make it so that my daughter has to speak with her Grandparents whenever they call? Or does she have to talk to them every Sunday night if they call at the directed time?
My next question is regarding school issues. This last school year I have started homeschooling my kids, and so far things have gone well, but my daughter's Father and his parents are putting pressure on my daughter to go back to public school for high school. While I did speak with the Father before the final decision was made to homeschool our daughter, and he agreed to doing so, he wants her to go back to public school for high school. If the Father does not agree to her continuing homeschool once she reaches high school age, do I have to put her back into public school?
Thank you very much for any advice you can provide!What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?