Judge seems dirty, please help!

[futuredust]

Yea I caught that one. I just now noticed that you are a woman. Probably confused in your sexuality though considering that you are so bitter as to pick fights with parents looking to help children on a free advice forum. If not a sexuality issue, definitely a control issue. I bet you are a control freak out the wazoo.. I would definitely say that you have some unresolved conflicts in your life. Perhaps with an absent father or an abusive step parent from your past. It is not normal behavior for someone to lash out as you have. I hope you can look inside of yourself to see that. I on the other hand have real concerns about protecting a child. If I am supposed to protect children, as a counselor, that I know are being abused, please explain how my own stepdaughter is omitted from my protection... I think what you really mean is that you don't think that it is any of my concern what her welfare is and that I should mind my own business. In the real world honey, it doesn't really work that way. On the other hand, you seem to be pretty intelligent, so what do you propose that my wife do in regards to protecting her child. Please omit any comments about step/bio and give straight up advice... If that is really what you are here for. If you are just looking for an argument please seek out someone else in need to harass.

Have you always been so attention seeking?

 

[moldableman]

Naw. I know a lost cause and I refuse to attempt anymore on you.

See, more control issues. You feel like you won the argument because I asked you for help and let down the defenses. You are so smart. Not only do you know law, but you can judge character based on a disagreement over very sensitive issues in the life of someone looking for help on a discussion board forum. All you have told me is that I have no rights and then you blasted me with insults and criticism. I would like the advice now since that is what I signed on for. Oh, I must tell you that I do appreciate you allowing me to vent on you the anger that I have stored up over this situation. This is great therapy.

 

[moldableman]

Have you always been so attention seeking?

I just asked questions and I got hammered. Please don't jump in now. It is too entertaining to argue with Buckeye girl..

 

[Rushia]

I on the other hand have real concerns about protecting a child. If I am supposed to protect children, as a counselor, that I know are being abused, please explain how my own stepdaughter is omitted from my protection...

She's not omitted from your protection. You been told SEVERAL times: Call CPS or have your wife file to keep her daughter in counseling. Quite frankly, I'm concerned that you'd rather sit and this site and whine about stepparent vs parent than protect this child.

I think what you really mean is that you don't think that it is any of my concern what her welfare is and that I should mind my own business.

If it was really a concern to you then GET YOUR WIFE TO TAKE CARE OF HER CHILD.

so what do you propose that my wife do in regards to protecting her child.

You been told SEVERAL times: Call CPS or have your wife file to keep her daughter in counseling. Quite frankly, I'm concerned that you'd rather sit and this site and whine about stepparent vs parent than protect this child.

Please omit any comments about step/bio and give straight up advice... If that is really what you are here for. If you are just looking for an argument please seek out someone else in need to harass.

Here's the problem that I see. I'm wondering if the judge didn't see right through you and your wife. I think the judge is very aware of the attempts of alienation of the child's father. You are NOT the father, she is NOT your child. You claim to have some training and if you were TRULY concerned for this child you would report to CPS or have your wife file to keep her in counseling. The lack of action on your part and that of your wife is disgusting if the child is truly being abused.

 

[moldableman]

She's not omitted from your protection. You been told SEVERAL times: Call CPS or have your wife file to keep her daughter in counseling. Quite frankly, I'm concerned that you'd rather sit and this site and whine about stepparent vs parent than protect this child.



If it was really a concern to you then GET YOUR WIFE TO TAKE CARE OF HER CHILD.



You been told SEVERAL times: Call CPS or have your wife file to keep her daughter in counseling. Quite frankly, I'm concerned that you'd rather sit and this site and whine about stepparent vs parent than protect this child.




Here's the problem that I see. I'm wondering if the judge didn't see right through you and your wife. I think the judge is very aware of the attempts of alienation of the child's father. You are NOT the father, she is NOT your child. You claim to have some training and if you were TRULY concerned for this child you would report to CPS or have your wife file to keep her in counseling. The lack of action on your part and that of your wife is disgusting if the child is truly being abused.

Here's the thing, as I have stated. We did call CPS, we did take him to court over it. The judge would not admit psychologist reports, school counselor records, social workers testimony, etc.... Hence the title, "Judge seems dirty." We, or excuse me, my wife wants to make sure that we don't waste several more thousands of dollars, since I am funding this crap, on having the judge yawn and disregard solid evidence. By the way, we hate going to court..so stressful. That is why I am asking for help. It is not about alienation, it is about protection.. Still lashing out.. Being as though both my wife and I suffered as children from not having a dad present, we see the importance of him being in her life, but not under abusive circumstances. I'm sure you understand..

 

[moldableman]

Here's the thing, as I have stated. We did call CPS, we did take him to court over it. The judge would not admit psychologist reports, school counselor records, social workers testimony, etc.... Hence the title, "Judge seems dirty." We, or excuse me, my wife wants to make sure that we don't waste several more thousands of dollars, since I am funding this crap, on having the judge yawn and disregard solid evidence. By the way, we hate going to court..so stressful. That is why I am asking for help. It is not about alienation, it is about protection.. Still lashing out.. Being as though both my wife and I suffered as children from not having a dad present, we see the importance of him being in her life, but not under abusive circumstances. I'm sure you understand..

I also wanted to add that the father called the psychologist last week and flexed his legal custody rights because he does not want any more incriminating evidence being brought against him. It is amazing that child psychologists advocate specifically for the child, but court officials make it look like we are planting this stuff in her head. If we were leading or mentally harming the child, it could just as easily be brought against us as evidence...since the father has rights of access to her records. This in turn promotes more abuse because when he finds out that his daughter told the psychologist things that little girls aren't supposed to know about her father, he abuses her more for telling.. See the cycle...

 

[ErinGoBragh]

Here's the thing, as I have stated. We did call CPS, we did take him to court over it. The judge would not admit psychologist reports, school counselor records, social workers testimony, etc.... Hence the title, "Judge seems dirty." We, or excuse me, my wife wants to make sure that we don't waste several more thousands of dollars, since I am funding this crap, on having the judge yawn and disregard solid evidence. By the way, we hate going to court..so stressful. That is why I am asking for help. It is not about alienation, it is about protection.. Still lashing out.. Being as though both my wife and I suffered as children from not having a dad present, we see the importance of him being in her life, but not under abusive circumstances. I'm sure you understand..

I also wanted to add that the father called the psychologist last week and flexed his legal custody rights because he does not want any more incriminating evidence being brought against him. It is amazing that child psychologists advocate specifically for the child, but court officials make it look like we are planting this stuff in her head. If we were leading or mentally harming the child, it could just as easily be brought against us as evidence...since the father has rights of access to her records. This in turn promotes more abuse because when he finds out that his daughter told the psychologist things that little girls aren't supposed to know about her father, he abuses her more for telling.. See the cycle...

You are one of the biggest idiots I have ever seen. There is no WE. You are nothing to these kids, at all. You have insulted senior members on this board, who COULD have helped your spouse, but instead you shot your mouth off. And "crap"? Good to see what you think of the legal system. Does you always QQ about how unfair your life is and butt yourself into things you have NOTHING to do with? Don't b**ch about financing it, that's YOUR choice. No one held the gun to your head and said, "Hey, pay for this!".. and no, just because you paid for it doesn't mean you get a say.

What I see here is a man who thinks everyone is out to get him and his wife and his stepkid. What I see here is that we are not getting the whole story, because I do not buy that EVERYONE affiliated with the court is acting to the detrimental interest of the child.

You're an adult, now start acting like it.

Butt out.

 

[wolfcreekgal]

How old is this child?

 

[moldableman]

You are one of the biggest idiots I have ever seen. There is no WE. You are nothing to these kids, at all. You have insulted senior members on this board, who COULD have helped your spouse, but instead you shot your mouth off. And "crap"? Good to see what you think of the legal system. Does you always QQ about how unfair your life is and butt yourself into things you have NOTHING to do with? Don't b**ch about financing it, that's YOUR choice. No one held the gun to your head and said, "Hey, pay for this!".. and no, just because you paid for it doesn't mean you get a say.

What I see here is a man who thinks everyone is out to get him and his wife and his stepkid. What I see here is that we are not getting the whole story, because I do not buy that EVERYONE affiliated with the court is acting to the detrimental interest of the child.

You're an adult, now start acting like it.

Butt out.

Sorry it took so long, my computer froze up.. Let me list this for you, since you came out of nowhere and are also lashing out.
These are the people on my wife's team who are attempting to stop the abuse.

1.Psychologist
2.Social Worker
3.School Counselor
4.Teachers
5.The child

These are the people on their team

1. The father

See the problem. So you butt out. Please forgive me if I do not give much value to the Senior Poster of a free advice forum that is actually not giving advice, but is more into criticizing caring parents..

 

[moldableman]

How old is this child?

She is eight. Wow, someone who asks normal questions.. Many thanks!

 

[ErinGoBragh]

Sorry it took so long, my computer froze up.. Let me list this for you, since you came out of nowhere and are also lashing out.
These are the people on my wife's team who are attempting to stop the abuse.

1.Psychologist
2.Social Worker
3.School Counselor
4.Teachers
5.The child

These are the people on their team

1. The father

See the problem. So you butt out. Please forgive me if I do not give much value to the Senior Poster of a free advice forum that is actually not giving advice, but is more into criticizing caring parents..

Yet you have now criticized not only the court judges, but ALSO broadly court officials with this brilliant statement...

It is amazing that child psychologists advocate specifically for the child, but court officials make it look like we are planting this stuff in her head

 

[moldableman]

Yet you have now criticized not only the court judges, but ALSO broadly court officials with this brilliant statement...

I see where you are heading, let me fix that statement. It is amazing that the father's attorney makes it look like we lead the child. Now that being said.. The father's attorney is a disbarred judge. Please stop with the egotism. Judges and attorneys the same are human and are capable of imperfection. Y'all really are lawyers. So good at twisting the statements that have been made in your favor. Very entertaining..

 

[Rushia]

Here's the thing, as I have stated. We did call CPS, we did take him to court over it. The judge would not admit psychologist reports, school counselor records, social workers testimony, etc.... Hence the title, "Judge seems dirty." We, or excuse me, my wife wants to make sure that we don't waste several more thousands of dollars, since I am funding this crap, on having the judge yawn and disregard solid evidence. By the way, we hate going to court..so stressful. That is why I am asking for help. It is not about alienation, it is about protection.. Still lashing out.. Being as though both my wife and I suffered as children from not having a dad present, we see the importance of him being in her life, but not under abusive circumstances. I'm sure you understand..

I also wanted to add that the father called the psychologist last week and flexed his legal custody rights because he does not want any more incriminating evidence being brought against him. It is amazing that child psychologists advocate specifically for the child, but court officials make it look like we are planting this stuff in her head. If we were leading or mentally harming the child, it could just as easily be brought against us as evidence...since the father has rights of access to her records. This in turn promotes more abuse because when he finds out that his daughter told the psychologist things that little girls aren't supposed to know about her father, he abuses her more for telling.. See the cycle...

So you don't want to protect the child if it's going to cost you thousands to fund this crap unless you're sure your wife will win.

Disgusting.

 

[moldableman]

I see where you are heading, let me fix that statement. It is amazing that the father's attorney makes it look like we lead the child. Now that being said.. The father's attorney is a disbarred judge. Please stop with the egotism. Judges and attorneys the same are human and are capable of imperfection. Y'all really are lawyers. So good at twisting the statements that have been made in your favor. Very entertaining..

Let's start over. Please big powerful attorneys. Please help us protect our little girl from an abuser. The court wouldn't allow concrete evidence in the past, and we just don't know what to do.. Will you save us...

Knowing full well that if the words abuser and stepparent were used in the same sentence, we would be having a completely different conversation. Can someone explain why it is okay for a father to be an abuser, but not a step father....