captgriggs
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? MS
Any advice about this is greatly appreciated. To start, my wife was forced to deliver our triplets early @ 22 1/2 weeks. We were constantly told that with today’s technology these situations have good chances. We understood the risks involved but, there was nothing to decide, they were coming anyway. My 1st child passed within 24 hours which was expected because he greatly underweight. The other two actually stood a good chance.
He was making great progress and seemed to stabilize as much as could be expected. We got a call a Thursday evening and were told that ants have got in to his incubator/bed and had bitten him several times but, he seems to be alright. Within 24 hours we received another call requesting us to come to the hospital because, he was fading fast and wasn't expected to make it through the next couple of hours. We were informed they were giving him twice the maximum dosage of medication just to keep him alive. They said they were not sure if the ant bites caused the infection or not but come on, I'm sure it didn't help matters.
A week and a half went by and he developed another infection and at this time they discovered that his brain bleeding had increased to stage 4 from the previous stage 2 before the incident. He passed on that Saturday afternoon, he was 5 weeks old. My wife and are on an emotional roller coaster and no longer have faith in that facility. I ask what they have done to prevent this from happening to my other son that’s still there. They didn't have an answer, I suggested to start ask everyone to eat and drink in the break room and not in the NICU but, that was completely blown off, it looks like a buffet every time we go in there.
We feel trapped, we can not get a transfer from our insurance to another hospital for my other son. What do we do, we feel like hostages to the system.
Thank you
Any advice about this is greatly appreciated. To start, my wife was forced to deliver our triplets early @ 22 1/2 weeks. We were constantly told that with today’s technology these situations have good chances. We understood the risks involved but, there was nothing to decide, they were coming anyway. My 1st child passed within 24 hours which was expected because he greatly underweight. The other two actually stood a good chance.
He was making great progress and seemed to stabilize as much as could be expected. We got a call a Thursday evening and were told that ants have got in to his incubator/bed and had bitten him several times but, he seems to be alright. Within 24 hours we received another call requesting us to come to the hospital because, he was fading fast and wasn't expected to make it through the next couple of hours. We were informed they were giving him twice the maximum dosage of medication just to keep him alive. They said they were not sure if the ant bites caused the infection or not but come on, I'm sure it didn't help matters.
A week and a half went by and he developed another infection and at this time they discovered that his brain bleeding had increased to stage 4 from the previous stage 2 before the incident. He passed on that Saturday afternoon, he was 5 weeks old. My wife and are on an emotional roller coaster and no longer have faith in that facility. I ask what they have done to prevent this from happening to my other son that’s still there. They didn't have an answer, I suggested to start ask everyone to eat and drink in the break room and not in the NICU but, that was completely blown off, it looks like a buffet every time we go in there.
We feel trapped, we can not get a transfer from our insurance to another hospital for my other son. What do we do, we feel like hostages to the system.
Thank you