What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NH. what can I do about a GM who refuses to adhere to parents wishes. GM after being told 1000 time not to reveal things to the GK continues to do so in the hopes of turning Children against Me. I'm not going to get into specifics but I will say that what she's telling them is not a lie or anything criminal But it is something Me and Mom have told her not to talk to the Kid's about. I do not have legal custody Mom does. I'm beginning to wonder if Mom is holding GM to our wishes. So if they are just My wishes now and GM refuses to stop, short of a restraining order (but not withstanding one) what can I do legally to stop this? GM has also harassed potential landlords with said info trying to keep Me from moving into the same town ( she thinks I moved to town to fight for custody) I did not move for that I moved there because we live in a rural area and to live in a different town would be harder on the Kid's. In closing let Me repeat she is not lying and it is nothing criminal. It's just something a 5 and 6 year old doesn't need to know PERIOD. so in short do I have a legal right to shut GM up? If so what are those legal rights. If not then what?