Hoping for Supervised Visits after recent outrageous episode by non-custodial parent

[Zigner]

I'm not really even inclined to offer any advice. He comes on here and LIES to get the answers he WANTS to hear, then he treats it like a joke anyway. <spit>

 

[Proserpina]

I'm not really even inclined to offer any advice. He comes on here and LIES to get the answers he WANTS to hear, then he treats it like a joke anyway. <spit>

I know.

And Blue is being way too nice to him.

 

[Antigone*]

Do not start another thread. You have one going. Ask ANY QUESTIONS regarding your custody situation on THIS thread.

Blue,

Let's think about this, really. The guy comes here, and lies to all of us, and now wants help. I though you deleted his thread because he was a liar, not just because he should have kept it all in one thread.

I am personally offended by the idjit.

 

[Just Blue]

I know.

And Blue is being way too nice to him.

Trust me...If I actually said what was on my mind I would be banned from this site.

 

[fishermanSTEVE]

I think the person who said: congrats, you now have to pee in a cup to see your kids is right on... and that sentence alone will hopefully wake you up about your drinking problem. Custody battles are usually pretty nasty, with one or both parties exaggerating in hopes to get what they want (and its a shame when parents hate their exes more than they love their kids - i see that phrase a lot around here and its very common and sad). You had a chance to defend yourself and you blew it by just handing it over to her. Maybe she wasn't exaggerating after all, and now, the judge won't forget that! Until he retires or for some reason he is replaced, you will be remembered by him as the dude who came to court drunk to respond to accusations of being a drunk....

In your case, i hope you do come to terms with your addiction and understand that now is the time to change your life around. You don't need to go to rehab or join a church or AA to get help, there are other non-religious, or cheaper options... google it.

When it comes down to it, its very basic. Do you want to see your kids and have a good relationship with them for the rest of their lives and see them get married and have kids and be a grandpa OR do you want to drink a flavored liquid that makes you feel woozy and giggly or dizzy and forgetful and can cause you legal problems and fatal car accidents and make you more and more miserable inside every day?

To me, the choice would be easy. And i don't have any experience with being an alcoholic, i don't even drink because i don't like the taste (and my fishing buddies harp on me about it, i just drink diet pepsi), so i can't necessarily relate, and for that my advice might be ignored by you. i have a close friend who is addicted to wine. i realize i can't help her. but sometimes people just need one huge wake up call that will inspire them to get help. i hope this is one for you.

But, dude... seriously? you DO have a problem because no one who is not an alcoholic would drink the day OF court, even if it was a sip. Don't you like soda? drink some soda, man. it tastes great. so what if you don't get buzzed. or drink near beer if you like the taste so much.

so, as you read this, a week before xmas, please come to terms with your problem. make something good come from this... not even for you, but for your kids, man!

PS most of my friends that don't drink, don't drink because their dad was a drunk. i think there is a good chance that your kids won't go down that road, and thats a good thing!

WAKE UP! PLEASE.

OK im done here.

 

[Just Blue]

Blue,

Let's think about this, really. The guy comes here, and lies to all of us, and now wants help. I though you deleted his thread because he was a liar, not just because he should have kept it all in one thread.

I am personally offended by the idjit.

I reported his VOTOS to Admin because I didn't want the lying twit to "trick" some members who hadn't seen this thread.

 

[Daniel Cooper]

Are you serious guys?!

After my wife left me she has had MULTIPLE boyfriends, more than five serious relationships! I am still the father here!! Don't you think that my kids must be so confused by seeing all these men come in and out of that home that SHE is doing something worse than me just throwing back a few brewskies while I watch a little football. She shouldn't date until at least the kids leave the home because it will confuse them about who their father is. I am their dad, not them!! What about her sex addiction, huh?! Be fair guys!!

 

[Banned_Princess]

Do not start another thread. You have one going. Ask ANY QUESTIONS regarding your custody situation on THIS thread.

his new thread is what caught my eye.

OP, if you cant, not drink any beer (alcohol) before going before a judge, regarding your CHILDREN, to claim you Don't drink too much - then you DRINK TOO MUCH. OMG. lol

Goodness, even drunks know that is the most ridiculous thing to do.

Why don't you just walk into a criminal court, to defend yourself against a weapons charge - with lots of weapons.

 

[LdiJ]

I am just sitting here shaking my head...because I have no clue how to get it across to this guy just how badly he has messed himself up.

Maybe I should say "Ditto" to what everyone else has said.

Dude, your attorney has to be SERIOUSLY ticked off at you at this point. You will be lucky if he doesn't fire you as a client.

 

[Just Blue]

Are you serious guys?!

After my wife left me she has had MULTIPLE boyfriends, more than five serious relationships! I am still the father here!! Don't you think that my kids must be so confused by seeing all these men come in and out of that home that SHE is doing something worse than me just throwing back a few brewskies while I watch a little football. She shouldn't date until at least the kids leave the home because it will confuse them about who their father is. I am their dad, not them!! What about her sex addiction, huh?! Be fair guys!!

You are an idiot. Talk to your lawyer who is paid to deal with you.

 

[Banned_Princess]

Are you serious guys?!

After my wife left me she has had MULTIPLE boyfriends, more than five serious relationships! I am still the father here!! Don't you think that my kids must be so confused by seeing all these men come in and out of that home that SHE is doing something worse than me just throwing back a few brewskies while I watch a little football. She shouldn't date until at least the kids leave the home because it will confuse them about who their father is. I am their dad, not them!! What about her sex addiction, huh?! Be fair guys!!

Really quick befoer they lock this.

SHE didnt break out in the middle of court and start having sex with multiple people. (maybe the court officers)

AND you werent honest from the beggining.

You screwed up big (all over the place) and now you have to STOP DRINKING and hit up a court approved rehab.

 

[Daniel Cooper]

My lawyer can fire me? Do they normally do that in this kind of situation? Oh shi...

 

[Just Blue]

My lawyer can fire me? Do they normally do that in this kind of situation? Oh shi...

Of course an attorney can fire a client that is detrimental to their case. Any Family Law attorney would have to have no heart to represent a parent that is such a danger to their children.

 

[Proserpina]

Are you serious guys?!

After my wife left me she has had MULTIPLE boyfriends, more than five serious relationships! I am still the father here!! Don't you think that my kids must be so confused by seeing all these men come in and out of that home that SHE is doing something worse than me just throwing back a few brewskies while I watch a little football. She shouldn't date until at least the kids leave the home because it will confuse them about who their father is. I am their dad, not them!! What about her sex addiction, huh?! Be fair guys!!

Hm let's think about this.

Kids see Dad drunk.

Kids sees Mom with man who isn't Dad.

Which do you think is worse?

 

[Ohiogal]

Are you serious guys?!

Very serious. YOU are an alcoholic. YOU showed up to court drunk.

After my wife left me she has had MULTIPLE boyfriends, more than five serious relationships!

Wife or ex wife?

I am still the father here!! Don't you think that my kids must be so confused by seeing all these men come in and out of that home that SHE is doing something worse than me just throwing back a few brewskies while I watch a little football. She shouldn't date until at least the kids leave the home because it will confuse them about who their father is. I am their dad, not them!! What about her sex addiction, huh?! Be fair guys!!

Throwing back a few brewskies while watching a little football game? Didn't know that court was held on Saturday and Sunday afternoons. Or were you gearing up for the final Monday Night Football game and started a little early? Or did you continue drinking to celebrate the teams last win? I know -- you were celebrating the Browns win over the Steelers and since that is a major sign that hell froze over you just kept the party going. What time was your hearing?
There is NO PROOF she has a sex addiction. There is proof that you are a drunk. Showing up to court was proof enough.