Wow thanks for your responses !
It is a parent who is a "serial" bully at our school.
She claims her child is being bullied " by a girl in green pants" . It would take an entire class to even knock this kid to the ground, and he would shove half into the wall first...which he does. The kid has major anger issues. Two days before she announced her " MY CHILD is the victim of a bully defense" her child actually shoved another class mate into a wall to get a play ball away from them. A typical pattern when this kind of thing ultimately happens is to mount an assassination of the entire school.
The disturbed nature of his childhood is written all over his face. Anger and confusion. Sad picture.
Her child is also growing into moms shoes and has a permanent case of woe-is-me and liar liar pants on fire -itis. Enuf sarcasm.
Seriously, it didn't hit me till last nite that she was probobly taping the playground because this time ( day 5) she popped out of nowhere when the bell rang ( actually popped out of the backseat) and pulled away in her car when none of us thought she was actually in the car this time. Shocked !
Her hubby is a "cameraman" .
They are both nuts.
I thought about calling the police because altho her child is at the school, the "issue" was resolved as far as the school was concerned...the child even denied the mothers accusations. ( hope for them yet) Yet she persists on hanging out precisely at break times to the minute out side the chain link fence right next to where her child is playing. The child looks over at her alot. It is disruptive IMO.
Any other person doing the same thing I would contact the office ( which I did) and expect them to deal the same way , " what do you want here ? " but so far , nothing except the admin getting alot of background on this mother, which , is going to take them through the entire faculty and past and present parents. Documentation.
Now, the child is not in school today. Another manipulation attempt that has been played out for years.
Her stalking and the poor attendance of the child starts when she is out witted by our knowing staff and every claim she makes is proven to be a fabrication , distortion of the facts to make her issue a non issue. She doesn't realize she has been unmasked as a bully and keeps up this same BS. Yes, it is annoying to ALL the staff.
Could maybe a pattern of behavior give the school just cause to do SOMETHING other than wait for the other shoe to drop ?