californiamom3
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In light of some new information, not only will he be pounding sand on this issue, he might be doing some jail time soon.You may also consider it from this point of view. Lets say you forgive 20K like you are considering to get him off your back for awhile. What's to say he won't let it rest for a little while then come back at you again? It worked the first time so why not try it again? What would he have to lose? So in other words this is not going to get him to back off, he will try it again. It sounds like he doesn't care what he has to do to get out of giving you money. I'd tell him to pound sand.
I appreciate all of your legal and personal advice.