Aggravated Parent

[sherri0315]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Kentucky

I am having problems with keeping my minor child away from her boyfriend (which is also a minor). I have went to his house on many different occasions asking his father to not allow my daughter in his house for any reason but I am continuing to find out that he is. Is there any charges that can be filed against the father?What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

 

[CourtClerk]

Forget about the father. Deal with the problem...

your daughter and why she thinks it's ok to disrespect you.

 

[sherri0315]

aggravavted parent

I am dealing with my daughter, I currently have her in the juvenile court system. I just dont see how an adult parent would undermind my wish for him not to allow her in there. Thats disrespect coming from the adult himself.

 

[CourtClerk]

The adult doesn't owe you any respect. He can do what he wants to do as long as he doesn't break the law...

As opposed to letting the court deal with your daughter, what are YOU doing to deal with your daughter? How long has this misbehavior and disrespect been going on?

 

[sherri0315]

aggravavted parent

Im trying to deal with my daughter the best I can. I have her in counseling and Im trying to work with her through the courts to find different programs to keep her out of trouble. And your right, that man dosent owe me respect but letting a minor child in his house after he has been told not to is not right.

 

[mistoffolees]

Im trying to deal with my daughter the best I can. I have her in counseling and Im trying to work with her through the courts to find different programs to keep her out of trouble. And your right, that man dosent owe me respect but letting a minor child in his house after he has been told not to is not right.

It's his house.

I'll tell you what. I don't want you to let anyone in your house that I don't like. How do you feel about that?

He has just as much right to ignore you as you have to ignore me.

 

[sherri0315]

aggravated parent

What? Dont let anyone in my house that you dont like?? Your making no sense out of this. I dont want him letting MY DAUGHTER in his house. If a parent came to my house and asked me not to allow their child in my house I would not let them in, just out of respect for the parents.

 

[Ohiogal]

What? Dont let anyone in my house that you dont like?? Your making no sense out of this. I dont want him letting MY DAUGHTER in his house. If a parent came to my house and asked me not to allow their child in my house I would not let them in, just out of respect for the parents.

That is your choice. But you don't have to listen to ANYONE who tells you who YOU can CHOOSE to have in your home or not.

 

[sherri0315]

aggravated parent

I beg to differ when he is an adult my child is a minor.

 

[mistoffolees]

What? Dont let anyone in my house that you dont like?? Your making no sense out of this. I dont want him letting MY DAUGHTER in his house. If a parent came to my house and asked me not to allow their child in my house I would not let them in, just out of respect for the parents.

That's nice. There's no rule that requires that, though.

The point which you're so obviously missing is that it's HIS HOUSE. He doesn't have to listen to you about who to invite in or not to invite in. If you don't want your daughter over there, it's up to you to keep her home.

 

[cyjeff]

I beg to differ when he is an adult my child is a minor.

You can beg all the differs you want.

Doesn't change the fact that you have to control your own child. Unless there is something illegal going on, you don't have a case.