Mamabear2003
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? NY
I'm hoping someone can help me with this one, I'm at my wits end. Long story short, I was never married, never lived with my child's father. There was a CS case put into effect in the original state she and I lived in (he resided in another state). He fell WAY behind in support, made promised to pay arrears starting on a certain date, that was over 3 years ago. Just about 2 years ago, my child and I moved to another state and I had the entire case transfered here. Apparently, the UIFCA (??) was never done properly where the order originated. Once I brought all the certified documentation to my CS Unit here, they started the ball rolling.
Apparently, it was now shot back because the obligor moved (for the 4th time in a year) to another county in his state. I'm back at square one.
In the meantime, he owes excess of 23 thousand. Visitation is a completely seperate issue (which I wish someone could help me with too).
I heard there was a motion I could fill out stating he is "willfully not attempting to pay his child support". Does anyone know if this is true? I've tried to contact the CS Unit up here and they said they heard of it, but they don't know where it comes from. I've been all over the state web site and the motions to fill out look similar, but I get lost in all the law talk.
I'm fighting this fight for the sake of my child, and just feel as if no one is listening in these courts. I've done everything I can think of to get help and I'm just going around in a terrible cycle. Unfortunately, it's my little one who loses out because of his immaturity and refusal to pay support.
Thank you for any advise you can offer.
I'm hoping someone can help me with this one, I'm at my wits end. Long story short, I was never married, never lived with my child's father. There was a CS case put into effect in the original state she and I lived in (he resided in another state). He fell WAY behind in support, made promised to pay arrears starting on a certain date, that was over 3 years ago. Just about 2 years ago, my child and I moved to another state and I had the entire case transfered here. Apparently, the UIFCA (??) was never done properly where the order originated. Once I brought all the certified documentation to my CS Unit here, they started the ball rolling.
Apparently, it was now shot back because the obligor moved (for the 4th time in a year) to another county in his state. I'm back at square one.
In the meantime, he owes excess of 23 thousand. Visitation is a completely seperate issue (which I wish someone could help me with too).
I heard there was a motion I could fill out stating he is "willfully not attempting to pay his child support". Does anyone know if this is true? I've tried to contact the CS Unit up here and they said they heard of it, but they don't know where it comes from. I've been all over the state web site and the motions to fill out look similar, but I get lost in all the law talk.
I'm fighting this fight for the sake of my child, and just feel as if no one is listening in these courts. I've done everything I can think of to get help and I'm just going around in a terrible cycle. Unfortunately, it's my little one who loses out because of his immaturity and refusal to pay support.
Thank you for any advise you can offer.