1) I do NOT have exclusive possession of the house, HOWEVER, I have IN WRITING, and agreement between me and the ex - which was agreed by our lawyers - that she would give me 24 hours notice before entering the premises.
2) There was a domestic violence incident against me in another state from HER several years ago, and I took the report to the municipal police along with the agreement from our lawyers. The Police contacted her and told her she was to abide by the 24 hour notice or face removal from the property.
3) The security system was installed because of several break ins around here, and the fact the ex came and went as she pleased a few times WITHOUT notifying me as per the agreement.
The video tape explicitly shows and sounds this man trying to assault the dog, and the dog backed up a few feet at first, but then bit as the man continued to advance toward him.
4) Once it was decided there were no STATE criminal charges to be filed against me by the Police, the local Municipal Court quickly reviewed the incident, and determined no LOCAL dangerous dog/bite ordinances were violated.
My issue is if a FAMILY COURT judge can declare a dog "dangerous", despite the Police, animal control, and a Municipal Court saying otherwise.
I understand that divorce/family court are DIFFERENT than Municipal and/or Court of Common Pleas CRIMINAL courts. MY issue therefore is can the judge assigned to my DIVORCE case declare the dog dangerous and have it removed and/or destroyed at the request of my Ex, since I probably will NOT be able to use the video as evidence the dog acted in defense of itself.
The issue with the recording ISNT that it is illegal - the Police and Municipal court viewed it and BASED THEIR DECISION off of it.
What I was told is there is a DIFFERENT STANDARD of EVIDENCE in FAMILY court, and that the video probably would not be admissible there.
5) And as far as not hiring my family friend. I was told that if i received legal counsel "free" or at a substantially reduced rate, the ex could then file to have ME cover HER legal expenses because I was refusing to sign the affidavit of consent in order to save up to buy her out.