onegooddad (questionable)

[CreativeBlock]

Is this the man-hating lesbian board or an advice forum? LOL

*snort* You wish.

Luckily, not all men are like you. Some not only come with the prerequisite penis, but also a brain, back-bone and set of testes.

We all know our truths. Really.

And some truths, such as your low intellect and extremely inadequate personality, are known to be self-evident.

 

[onegooddad]

Um ... I don't know. Considering that my degree (which is mentioned in my siggie ~ how on earth are you capable to making $16K in one day with the observational abilities of a wet dishrag is beyond me) is in psychology, I'd say so.

Silverplum pointed out more of your displays of inadequate personality, but I think the above quote is decent enough for a start.

And um ... BTW, there is a difference between Inadequate Personality Disorder and HAVING an inadequate personality. You're welcome. Buh-bye.

Hmm... it's Fat Tuesday and I'm happy. Obviously you do not "practice" and your Bachelor's in PSY doesn't get too far. That's why you're here, right?

I'm not inadequate... when faced with small minded people it's nice to dog pile! Call me a bully, but I win.

 

[Proserpina]

Call me a bully, but I win.

Such a healthy attitude to pass onto your child!

 

[frylover]

For someone who claims to care so much about his child, you certainly do use the phrase "I don't want to" a great deal when presented with suggestions on what to do to change/improve your situation. It appears the only thing you want to hear is "yes, you can do whatever you want regardless of what the court order says because YOUR way makes much more sense and your ex is an evil witch."

So.....allow me.

Ahem: "Yes, you can do whatever you want regardless of what the court order says because YOUR way makes much more sense and the ex is an evil witch."

But, really, if that money buys you your way, why don't you just go to court and buy the court order you want?

 

[onegooddad]

*snort* You wish.

Luckily, not all men are like you. Some not only come with the prerequisite penis, but also a brain, back-bone and set of testes.



And some truths, such as your low intellect and extremely inadequate personality, are known to be self-evident.

Stay at home with your boring kids, trudge through the pathetic school system, listen to your husband come home from his terribly boring and pathetic middle management (if best) job somewhere in the BFE... and depend on the government to "take care of you".,

And I'm the one with the low intellect? LOLOLOLOL

I have the brain... I have the backbone and I have the balls. That's why I retired in my mid-40's. LOLOL

And that's why you and your pathetic family will work until 70 and not have social security or anything to fall back on besides your paltry savings and god forbid your kids want to go to college. LOLOL

I know what I say is rude, but it's just the gift that keeps on giving. Thanks for the first gift!

 

[onegooddad]

For someone who claims to care so much about his child, you certainly do use the phrase "I don't want to" a great deal when presented with suggestions on what to do to change/improve your situation. It appears the only thing you want to hear is "yes, you can do whatever you want regardless of what the court order says because YOUR way makes much more sense and your ex is an evil witch."

So.....allow me.

Ahem: "Yes, you can do whatever you want regardless of what the court order says because YOUR way makes much more sense and the ex is an evil witch."

But, really, if that money buys you your way, why don't you just go to court and buy the court order you want?

Eally? Eally? Drop the emotion. Spell check.

 

[LdiJ]

Stay at home with your boring kids, trudge through the pathetic school system, listen to your husband come home from his terribly boring and pathetic middle management (if best) job somewhere in the BFE... and depend on the government to "take care of you".,

And I'm the one with the low intellect? LOLOLOLOL

I have the brain... I have the backbone and I have the balls. That's why I retired in my mid-40's. LOLOL

And that's why you and your pathetic family will work until 70 and not have social security or anything to fall back on besides your paltry savings and god forbid your kids want to go to college. LOLOL

I know what I say is rude, but it's just the gift that keeps on giving. Thanks for the first gift!

You know, I feel a great deal of pity for you. Some day your child is going to tell you to take a major hike due to your selfish attitude, and then suddenly you are going to be wondering where you went wrong.

 

[Silverplum]

Eally? Eally? Drop the emotion. Spell check.

Her UNedited post -- quoted by YOU -- shows no such error.

I think you've gone the whole way 'round the bend, fella.

Further, when you start checking spelling: you've lost the argument.

G'night.

 

[frylover]

And he didn't even thank me for telling him he was right. My feelings are hurt.

Oh, wait....no they're not. It takes more than a crazy loser like this to hurt my feelings.

OP, WHAT is so hard for you to grasp. You can not disregard the court order without being at risk for contempt. Follow it or have it changed. THAT is the LEGAL answer to your original question. In regards to your later rants, if you think mom isn't taking adequate care of your daughter's educational needs, go back to court. What have you got to lose except a little bit of money?

 

[SESmama]

What you are doing is no better than mom so yeah, I call hypocrite. Also, as you have so adequately shown, money does not get you better or happier than the rest of the world.

I made my requisite $20.22 today and guess what? I get to be at home with my child and know his father (even as much as I hate him) would still put little dude ahead of himself more often than not.

What you need to do ogdad, is to be the best parent you can be and let mom hang her own self. Don't join in the destruction of your (plural) child. Be better than that. We don't care who is right or who is wrong, we care if the child is getting what the child needs and deserves.

That being said, follow the CO and if you want different then file for a modification.

 

[onegooddad]

And he didn't even thank me for telling him he was right. My feelings are hurt.

Oh, wait....no they're not. It takes more than a crazy loser like this to hurt my feelings.

OP, WHAT is so hard for you to grasp. You can not disregard the court order without being at risk for contempt. Follow it or have it changed. THAT is the LEGAL answer to your original question. In regards to your later rants, if you think mom isn't taking adequate care of your daughter's educational needs, go back to court. What have you got to lose except a little bit of money?

I can do what I want, really. Courts are fairly impotent... clogged with boring and oftentimes frivolous motions. If those who worked in the courts really wanted to work for a living, they'd have law practices, be paralegals, etc. The system hides behind the hind teet. Let me do as little as possible and make a living off the taxpayer.

When was the last time you wrote or any of you here wrote a 7 figure check to the IRS?

 

[frylover]

This isn't even about his daughter anymore. If he REALLY cared about her, he'd get down off his high "I'm rich and I can do whatever I want" horse, and be a REAL man and do what needed to be done LEGALLY.

I also wonder why one of those attorneys he has a call into hasn't called him back and told him "absolutely, you're God....do whatever you want and you'll be fine!"

Wait for it......

 

[Proserpina]

I feel really bad for this child because she has lousy parents, isn't going to learn a whole heck of a lot about being a mature and responsible adult, isn't even going to realize it's bad to behave this way, and we will end up with another tabloid queen.

Very very sad

So, shall I close the thread and give us all a more pleasant evening?

That's probably best, hon.

Thank you.

 

[onegooddad]

What you are doing is no better than mom so yeah, I call hypocrite. Also, as you have so adequately shown, money does not get you better or happier than the rest of the world.

I made my requisite $20.22 today and guess what? I get to be at home with my child and know his father (even as much as I hate him) would still put little dude ahead of himself more often than not.

What you need to do ogdad, is to be the best parent you can be and let mom hang her own self. Don't join in the destruction of your (plural) child. Be better than that. We don't care who is right or who is wrong, we care if the child is getting what the child needs and deserves.

That being said, follow the CO and if you want different then file for a modification.

SESmama, thank you. Your comments in this thread were the most reasonable and logical. This is not a battle between ex and me. I honestly want to be a great, not a good dad. Good is never good enough for me.

My reason for asking what I did originally was to see if "reason" really works. I've had people tell me to prepare for the day that my child will want to move in with me. 8 years old is not old enough to sway the court.

Our judgment states that I can have two weekends per month, sometimes three if available and I can do them on consecutive weekends... that was because I did live down the street and could spend Fridays through the following Mondays- 11 straight days... have visitation during the week and then move on to my other homes. If you read my long post, it didn't work out.

Life would be so much easier if parents would work together, leave their junk back in the trunk and do what is right for their children. Unfortunately it doesn't typically work that way.

I have decided much earlier today and sent via email to my ex that I will take my best efforts to get our child per the judgment. $100 to confirm us on the early flight is not an issue.

But, let me make this clear... the judgment states that I have my child back by 9:30am or the start of school... whichever is later. Even when I bring my child back prior to 9am, my child rarely gets to school until noon. So what is the difference if she gets to school at noon, but gets to sleep in and get a good night's rest?