OP... You've tried to convince everyone that you provide everything for your child, except a roof. But that's not true, is it? You've stated that you make $200/week. And you've also stated that your man sends you money. And Dad sends Grandma money (which, you should know is REIMBURSEMENT for money she has already spent on the child - it NEVER goes to the child). So... Dad, Grandma and your man all help you support and provide for your child.
You say that when you move to CA, you will get a different job. But... what job will allow you to take two months off in the summer? The only one *I* know of is a teacher. But... you don't have the qualifications to be a teacher. You have to finish HS (I seem to recall you posting that you quit school - given your age, is it safe to think that was HS you quit?). And then you have to have - at a minimum - a Bachelor's degree. Which you definitely don't have. So, please, enlighten us - just what sort of job to you expect to get in CA, in the current economy, that will allow you the summer off?