mistoffolees
Senior Member
Disagree all you want - you're still wrong.Considering it means "illicit lover of a married person," and I didn't even know him when he was married...much less become his lover, until well after he became single...I would have to disagree.
You gave only the first definition for paramour. The second definition (at least according to dictionary.com) is 'any lover'. So you are a paramour.