from legal guardianship to adoption

[Valkrie17]

In the state of south carolina adoption laws very strictly limit who can adopt, so in turn not all good families are allowed. I know a married couple who are such a family, and who have tried for years and can not concieve. I also recently found out that I may be pregnant, but as my husband and I have a six month old daughter we can not afford to care for another child at the moment. Could we sign over legal guardianship to them without losing custody of our first daughter, and if so could we afterwords forfeight parental rights to them as a sort of informal adoption? We do not wish to have any parental rights at any given time, and would like to give them the child they can not have for themselves. How can we do so and insure that they could keep it if they do not meet the qualifications of legally adopting? This is in south carolina.

 

[Proserpina]

In the state of south carolina adoption laws very strictly limit who can adopt, so in turn not all good families are allowed. I know a married couple who are such a family, and who have tried for years and can not concieve. I also recently found out that I may be pregnant, but as my husband and I have a six month old daughter we can not afford to care for another child at the moment. Could we sign over legal guardianship to them without losing custody of our first daughter, and if so could we afterwords forfeight parental rights to them as a sort of informal adoption? We do not wish to have any parental rights at any given time, and would like to give them the child they can not have for themselves. How can we do so and insure that they could keep it if they do not meet the qualifications of legally adopting? This is in south carolina.

What exactly would prohibit them from meeting the State's adoptive parent requirements?

There is a reason for my question.

 

[Valkrie17]

more information

The financial guidelines in south carolina require about 25,000 dollars in a lump sum. They can not afford it, but they do make more than enough to care for a child. As far as parenting skills they are more than qualified, both are in their late 30's, and have well established jobs.

 

[Isis1]

The financial guidelines in south carolina require about 25,000 dollars in a lump sum. They can not afford it, but they do make more than enough to care for a child. As far as parenting skills they are more than qualified, both are in their late 30's, and have well established jobs.

Where exactly did you get this information?

 

[TheGeekess]

Here are some questions often asked by potential adoptive parents.

What are adoption services?
Adoption services are the array of professional services offered and coordinated by an agency to not only place a child into an adoptive family but to also strengthen and preserve the family during the adoption process. Adoption services are provided statewide in South Carolina through regional adoption offices. There also are a number of private adoption agencies offering adoption services.

Does it take a lot of money to adopt children?
Not really. You do not have to be rich or have a high income. However, you should be able to manage on the income you earn. The child may be eligible for financial assistance.

Do I have to own my home?
No, you can rent your home and still adopt. The primary concern is that there is adequate space for the child. Living arrangements should ensure the health, safety and well-being of your family and the child you wish to adopt.

What about marital status?
Both married and single persons are encouraged to adopt.

Can you work outside the home?
The fact that a primary caretaker works outside the home does not exclude her or him from being an adoptive parent. Each situation is decided on the parents' ability to meet the child's needs. Child care plans, working hours and family schedules are evaluated.

Do adoption specialists pry into my private business?
You and your adoption specialist share a particular responsibility to look at those things that will help or hinder an adoption. If you think the specialist is prying too much, then say so, and ask the reasons why certain things are discussed.

SCDSS Adoption FAQs

 

[Valkrie17]

financial guidelines

it is the average processing fee for the sum of all the procedures and processes. since they are non family the investigation and monitoring is their responsibility financially as well as all legal documents and fees, i was given this information from the wife who was in tears at having been denied again we want nothing more than to help them, and are trying every route possible to find a loop hole in the adoption laws that could allow them the chance to be parents.

 

[TheGeekess]

Adoption

 

[stealth2]

In the state of south carolina adoption laws very strictly limit who can adopt, so in turn not all good families are allowed. I know a married couple who are such a family, and who have tried for years and can not concieve. I also recently found out that I may be pregnant, but as my husband and I have a six month old daughter we can not afford to care for another child at the moment. Could we sign over legal guardianship to them without losing custody of our first daughter, and if so could we afterwords forfeight parental rights to them as a sort of informal adoption? We do not wish to have any parental rights at any given time, and would like to give them the child they can not have for themselves. How can we do so and insure that they could keep it if they do not meet the qualifications of legally adopting? This is in south carolina.

Uuuhhhh... in your other thread, you're asking about MOM filing for child support. So, really... who ARE you? Mom or Dad? Or some previously unmentioned Significant Other?

ETA - and just what state ARE you in? Your other thread places you in KY. Or is that a jelly in the bottom of your nightstand?

 

[stealth2]

OP's other thread: https://forum.freeadvice.com/child-support-98/not-legally-divorced-but-wife-threatening-sue-child-support-can-she-550606.html#post2816154

 

[TheGeekess]

Stealth, I think we're dealing with two different users. The other one is Valkryie and they joined: 05-16-2011 Total Posts 1 .

 

[Ohiogal]

Hey OP

QUIT POSTING TO OTHER THREADS. You know nothing about the law and your advice borders on the dangerous. It is completely wrong, moronic, idiotic and can cause anyone who listens to find themselves in a truckload of manure. Keep your stupidity and inanity to yourself. I will be deleting EVERY POST I see of yours that contains inaccurate/wrong/dangerous advice. If I keep doing that YOU WILL BE BANNED so you cannot harm anyone with your so-called information.

 

[stealth2]

Stealth, I think we're dealing with two different users. The other one is Valkryie and they joined: 05-16-2011 Total Posts 1 .

Thanks, Geekess. My apologies to OP - totally my bad! But please, people. Learn the correct spelling: Valkyrie. That's what threw me off as I couldn't imagine two people in such a short time frame (a) using the same type of handle and (b) being unable to spell it. Next time, go with something easier... like Dog17.