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[mistoffolees]

Also, another thing is i am sorta scared of living with her. Can she call the cops out of the blue and build a case against me? It will take some time to get her out of the apartment because families will get involved not legally but traditionally and will talk to each other. What can i do to protect myself from cops if she decides to take this route? thank you very much for helping me out with great advice all of you

Move out if you're concerned.

Alternatively, if only your name is on the lease, you can legally evict her, but that takes time.

Or do both. Move out until you've managed to legally evict her.

Now, if both of your names are on the lease, you will have a hard time evicting her - your best bet is to simply move out.

 

[amp009]

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Move out if you're concerned.

Alternatively, if only your name is on the lease, you can legally evict her, but that takes time.

Or do both. Move out until you've managed to legally evict her.

Now, if both of your names are on the lease, you will have a hard time evicting her - your best bet is to simply move out.

hello,

I have another issue. She has been staying with her parents house for past 2 weeks. Yesterday, girl side of the family and my family got together and tried to end everything but her family is threatening me that if you do not take her back they will go to cops that i mistreated her haraassed her and everything. Her brother almost was going to hit me yesterday and they want me to take her back. I also made an appointment with the lawyer what to do but i need suggestion what to do.

 

[amp009]

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i just want to end this because it is making me so much stressed. i am willing to move out of state but i just don't know what will happen if they make false accusations against me. I have not done anything at all i simply just told her get out i do not want to live with you.

 

[mistoffolees]

i just want to end this because it is making me so much stressed. i am willing to move out of state but i just don't know what will happen if they make false accusations against me. I have not done anything at all i simply just told her get out i do not want to live with you.

They will have to prove their allegations.

Now, if a bunch of them get together and are willing to lie under oath, it is possible to prove (legally) false allegations - if your attorney can't prove that they're lying. You really need to make sure to protect yourself and consult with a local attorney.

 

[amp009]

They will have to prove their allegations.

Now, if a bunch of them get together and are willing to lie under oath, it is possible to prove (legally) false allegations - if your attorney can't prove that they're lying. You really need to make sure to protect yourself and consult with a local attorney.

Thank you. I am getting an attorney but even if they lie under oath how are they going to testify they do not live with me? what do you think is the best way to protect myself.

thank you soo much for your help

 

[xylene]

Is there some reason why you haven't "cut them off at the pass" if you will now that they are blackmailing you and threatening you?

If you are in danger, go to the police.

Otherwise wait for the lawyer, or ask the lawyer if he can see you sooner as this has become an emergency involving threats of violence against you.

BUT

I have no idea why you are meeting with this girl's family.

That is particularly what I meant by think like an American. You don't owe them anything. CERTAINLY NOT because you had sexual relations with their daughter and now no longer wish to see her.

That is called breaking up. They need to learn.

Next time bro even looks at you, walk away and report it to the cops.

Look into a restraining order.

 

[amp009]

update on my case

First of all thank you everyone for giving me advice.

Here is my update. I changed my locks on the apartment put all my furniture in storage and gave 1 month notice to apartment. I am living with my uncle now and she is living with her parents. Her stuff and furniture is still at the apartment and i have decided just to hire a hauling company and send it back to her house. My family is still deciding on that. I wrote 2 letters i put one in my wallet and another gave it to my uncle that if i get hurt her family will be responsible because of all the threats i am getting. Her uncles do call me but i do not pick up the phone. I get texts from her and her brother that they want to meet up but i don't answer so they called my mom/dad in India and threatened them that i need to come and pick her up or you guys and your son we will make sure you pay for it

I consulted about 3 lawyers and they have all told me that girl side cannot prove the marriage because it is not registered. Also if she tries to go to court that i mistreated her that will be very hard to prove in court because she doesn't have a police report and no doctor report. I am going to try to tell lawyer about the phone calls and try to get restraining order.

What do you guys think? I think i have covered myself pretty well. Any suggestions?

 

[amp009]

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anyone please?

 

[LdiJ]

First of all thank you everyone for giving me advice.

Here is my update. I changed my locks on the apartment put all my furniture in storage and gave 1 month notice to apartment. I am living with my uncle now and she is living with her parents. Her stuff and furniture is still at the apartment and i have decided just to hire a hauling company and send it back to her house. My family is still deciding on that. I wrote 2 letters i put one in my wallet and another gave it to my uncle that if i get hurt her family will be responsible because of all the threats i am getting. Her uncles do call me but i do not pick up the phone. I get texts from her and her brother that they want to meet up but i don't answer so they called my mom/dad in India and threatened them that i need to come and pick her up or you guys and your son we will make sure you pay for it

I consulted about 3 lawyers and they have all told me that girl side cannot prove the marriage because it is not registered. Also if she tries to go to court that i mistreated her that will be very hard to prove in court because she doesn't have a police report and no doctor report. I am going to try to tell lawyer about the phone calls and try to get restraining order.

What do you guys think? I think i have covered myself pretty well. Any suggestions?

I certainly don't see anything more that you can do.

 

[xylene]

First of all thank you everyone for giving me advice.

Here is my update. I changed my locks on the apartment put all my furniture in storage and gave 1 month notice to apartment. I am living with my uncle now and she is living with her parents. Her stuff and furniture is still at the apartment and i have decided just to hire a hauling company and send it back to her house. My family is still deciding on that. I wrote 2 letters i put one in my wallet and another gave it to my uncle that if i get hurt her family will be responsible because of all the threats i am getting. Her uncles do call me but i do not pick up the phone. I get texts from her and her brother that they want to meet up but i don't answer so they called my mom/dad in India and threatened them that i need to come and pick her up or you guys and your son we will make sure you pay for it

I consulted about 3 lawyers and they have all told me that girl side cannot prove the marriage because it is not registered. Also if she tries to go to court that i mistreated her that will be very hard to prove in court because she doesn't have a police report and no doctor report. I am going to try to tell lawyer about the phone calls and try to get restraining order.

What do you guys think? I think i have covered myself pretty well. Any suggestions?

You are making all the right moves to "move on" from a bad break up.

Definitely get the restraining order.