You're both wrong. It is entirely possible for the parties to call something alimony - and even for the decree to say that it's alimony, but STILL not meet the IRS requirements for taxable alimony. For example, if the payment does not end at death, it is not taxable alimony - regardless of what it's called in the decree.
Right. So, it's NOT alimony if it's (as you suggested) a property settlement.
Per the IRS rules:
Amounts paid under divorce or separate maintenance decrees or written separation agreements entered into between you and your spouse or former spouse
will be considered alimony for Federal tax purposes if:
*You and your spouse or former spouse do not file a joint return with each other
*You pay in cash (including checks or money orders)
*The payment is received by (or on behalf of) your spouse or former spouse
*
The decree of divorce or separate maintenance does not say that the payment is not alimony
*If legally separated under a decree of divorce or separate maintenance, you and your former spouse are not members of the same household when you make the payment
*You have no liability to make the payment (in cash or property) after the death of your spouse or former spouse, and
*Your payment is not treated as child support or a property settlement
Not all payments under a divorce or separation instrument are alimony.
Alimony does not include:
*Child support
*
Noncash property settlements **Obviously does not apply in this case
*Payments that are your spouse's part of community income
*Payments to keep up the payer's property, or
*Use of the payer's property
The point is that the only one who can determine whether something is taxable or not is the IRS. Your advice should be to follow their rules - which are fairly clear and self-explanatory.
And which do not include monthly payments towards a "property settlement". Per your own link.
OP's question was very simple and very clear:
The answer is very simple: Yes, it is possible to write an agreement in such a way as to make alimony non-taxable to the recipient and non-deductible for the payor. Simply read the IRS rules. Both you and OHRW were incorrect when you said that it is not possible to do that.
ALIMONY is taxable. Calling it something else makes it NOT ALIMONY.
OP is asking if they can AGREE THAT ALIMONY WILL NOT BE TAXABLE. The answer is no. They cannot AGREE that ALIMONY is not taxable.
Could they finagle the order to include an alimony-like settlement that was structured so that the IRS wouldn't see it as alimony, and therefore not pay taxes on it? Probably.
Can they write it into their order that
alimony will be paid but not taxable? NO.
I really don't care what you can see, nor does the IRS. The IRS rules are very clear as I stated earlier. If the payments meet the IRS rules for taxable alimony, then it's taxable alimony. If they don't meet the IRS rules for taxable alimony, then it's not. Regardless of what you think it should be.
That wasn't even OP's question. Read it again.
OP wants to know if the two people can AGREE that the Alimony will not be taxable. And the answer is... NO. The two parties CANNOT make an agreement that the IRS will not tax their alimony.