Am i in Contempt????

[stealth2]

So, it was a little unfair that WE had to buy him his own breakfast AND lunch, and as soon as his other child got there, he buys his other child food and not our child?!? (noted)... The judge never said I couldn't be there.. never!

Well... GROW UP!

Who on earth ever told you life was fair? They lied. Are you REALLY griping at... $5 to feed your kid?

I used to pick my kids up at 6pm on a Sunday, with a 6 hour (minimum) drive home. They never had dinner beforehand. So I brought food with. Whoop Dee.

 

[mistoffolees]

The judge NEVER stated that I could not be there.

I'll bet the judge never said that he can't be there during your parenting time, either. So maybe you'd better get your guest room ready so he can drop in during your parenting time whenever he wants.

After all, the child might ask him to stay.....

 

[mariasusa]

My ex has had supervised visitation at two different times. The judge never wrote on the court order "mom should stay away at supervised visits" because its assumed...the whole point of you and dad cooperating on WHO supervises the visits means...not you. The time is for dad and child, except that he gets monitered by a responsible person.

You should NOT be at dads supervised visits, and honestly? I think if you take anything to court that right there could sink you. And...while we're talking on it, deciding to bring your bf because he brought his wife (whoever)? is really childish and petty.

You really need to back off. Follow your court order. Don't expect the worst. Don't set up before the visits even started happening your next move to impede dads progress with his son. Can you not see how that is YOU, not your son, who wants things not to work? Shift to...what is best for your son, and you may have to rid yourself of some old standing opinions...give them a chance. Back off. Seriously.

 

[lilmansmom]

My ex has had supervised visitation at two different times. The judge never wrote on the court order "mom should stay away at supervised visits" because its assumed...the whole point of you and dad cooperating on WHO supervises the visits means...not you. The time is for dad and child, except that he gets monitered by a responsible person.

You should NOT be at dads supervised visits, and honestly? I think if you take anything to court that right there could sink you. And...while we're talking on it, deciding to bring your bf because he brought his wife (whoever)? is really childish and petty.

You really need to back off. Follow your court order. Don't expect the worst. Don't set up before the visits even started happening your next move to impede dads progress with his son. Can you not see how that is YOU, not your son, who wants things not to work? Shift to...what is best for your son, and you may have to rid yourself of some old standing opinions...give them a chance. Back off. Seriously.

there is probably no way we will be going back to ourt, then if I dont agree on the next supervised visits nothing can happen?!? I will not agree to anything he wants. And if the judge is simply going to yell at us, there is nothing my ex can do. He has put my child and I through enough and is now starting all these problems when he has been absent. I will do everything to protect my child from him and for the simple fact our child doesnt want anything to do with him. Our child has told my attorney this and my attorney wants me to ask him to sign over his rights. Can i get in trouble for this?

 

[Zigner]

Now it comes out. Make DAD look bad so she can move on with the new-and-improved family.

 

[Silverplum]

there is probably no way we will be going back to ourt, then if I dont agree on the next supervised visits nothing can happen?!? I will not agree to anything he wants. And if the judge is simply going to yell at us, there is nothing my ex can do. He has put my child and I through enough and is now starting all these problems when he has been absent. I will do everything to protect my child from him and for the simple fact our child doesnt want anything to do with him. Our child has told my attorney this and my attorney wants me to ask him to sign over his rights. Can i get in trouble for this?

I think you should tell the Judge everything you've told us. Leave nothing out.

The Judge will surely understand.

 

[Proserpina]

there is probably no way we will be going back to ourt, then if I dont agree on the next supervised visits nothing can happen?!? I will not agree to anything he wants. And if the judge is simply going to yell at us, there is nothing my ex can do. He has put my child and I through enough and is now starting all these problems when he has been absent. I will do everything to protect my child from him and for the simple fact our child doesnt want anything to do with him. Our child has told my attorney this and my attorney wants me to ask him to sign over his rights. Can i get in trouble for this?

I think you should print out every post that you've made here and show them all to the judge.

 

[Proserpina]

The judge already signed the order, my ex needs 3 supervised visits before standard visiattion gets taken into affect. However, because of my mom's statement we are requesting this visitation be supervised for longer, can the judge make another hearing?

If you're for real - which I honestly doubt, at this point - you need to understand something.

You are looking at eventually LOSING CUSTODY if you continue with this bs.

Do.
You.
Understand?

Get your mind around that.

 

[Antigone*]

I think you should tell the Judge everything you've told us. Leave nothing out.

The Judge will surely understand.

I think she should tell the judge everything. We can only hope that the judge will listen

 

[lilmansmom]

Terminating Parental Rights?

Can I get in trouble for asking my ex to give up his rights, I will also include that we drop the child support in his favor

 

[Antigone*]

Can I get in trouble for asking my ex to give up his rights, I will also include that we drop the child support in his favor

<spit>

Whe you create the bad situation, you have no right to be upset about the results that come of it. Just my two cents.

 

[Proserpina]

Can I get in trouble for asking my ex to give up his rights, I will also include that we drop the child support in his favor

Now I know you're a troll.

But I'll play along one last time.

He cannot give up his rights, pumpkin. Not in this situation. Surely your "attorney" would know this?

 

[Just Blue]

Now I know you're a troll.

But I'll play along one last time.

He cannot give up his rights, pumpkin. Not in this situation. Surely your "attorney" would know this?

Actually google is OP's friend. It is also ours...