Contempt of court

[Silverplum]

how do i unlock it?

With your mind.

 

[Proserpina]

My question about his visits has not been answered... how is it he can tell the judge he onle has one day off but gets a full weekend?

Because even if Daddy has to work, he can have the child - HE is allowed to have HIS relatives babysit, just as you are.

Really, this shouldn't be this difficult. Have you done ANY reading on this site?

Do it. Before you post again, preferably.

 

[lilmansmom]

With your mind.

this is not mature... You guys prefer me post on other thread however not providing details as to how?!?

 

[Silverplum]

Really?

WHY are you STILL asking questions in this thread??

My question about his visits has not been answered... how is it he can tell the judge he onle has one day off but gets a full weekend?

 

[Proserpina]

this is not mature... You guys prefer me post on other thread however not providing details as to how?!?

Oh for the love of...

Forget it. Keep this thread open seeing as it's ALREADY 2 pages long.

In future, to unlock the thread - because I'm sure that will happen again - you go to your thread, and click on the "thread tools" thing. It's a blue thing near the top. Then it will give you an option to unlock.

Folks: I'm not retyping everything on the other thread. Might as well keep this one open.

 

[Silverplum]

Folks: I'm not retyping everything on the other thread. Might as well keep this one open.

The typing, whether it happens or not, here or there, is an exercise in futility.

 

[Proserpina]

The typing, whether it happens or not, here or there, is an exercise in futility.

I know.

But it's the only exercise I'm likely to get today.

 

[Silverplum]

I know.

But it's the only exercise I'm likely to get today.

 

[Antigone*]

this is not mature... You guys prefer me post on other thread however not providing details as to how?!?

Don't bother unlocking that thread. It was put out of its misery for a reason. This one won't go anywhere either so the faster that this sucker gets put to bed, the better.

You really don't care about your child. You just love hating your ex.

 

[Ohiogal]

My question about his visits has not been answered... how is it he can tell the judge he onle has one day off but gets a full weekend?

How can you have custody if you EVER work? Oh you don't work. You rely on everyone else to support your child. Is that it?

 

[lilmansmom]

How can you have custody if you EVER work? Oh you don't work. You rely on everyone else to support your child. Is that it?

Visitation is a right.. if he is not taking advantage of that right then how does he deserve any? I am not interfering when I believe things are in our childs best interest. I dont trust my ex, and i dont believe he has any potential on being the dad he should have been. He had that chnace and has abused it by being absent and not wanting it before. He has never faught before int he past and is only doing so now because child support got raised. How is THAT in any best interest for the child? An absentee father all of a sudden wanting visits? Our child DOES NOT know him! Nor does our child care for him, my boyfriend has been the one providing for him this whole time!

 

[frylover]

With your mind.

Use the force, Luke.

 

[Proserpina]

Visitation is a right.. if he is not taking advantage of that right then how does he deserve any? I am not interfering when I believe things are in our childs best interest. I dont trust my ex, and i dont believe he has any potential on being the dad he should have been. He had that chnace and has abused it by being absent and not wanting it before. He has never faught before int he past and is only doing so now because child support got raised. How is THAT in any best interest for the child? An absentee father all of a sudden wanting visits? Our child DOES NOT know him! Nor does our child care for him, my boyfriend has been the one providing for him this whole time!

The court doesn't CARE what you think.

You are obviously alienating Dad, and if you continue doing so you're going to lose custody.

Your child WILL get to know him, and your child WILL be spending EXTENDED periods with him without you being present, eventually. You will have absolutely no control over that.

Get. Over. It.

edited to add: You better darn well get used to encouraging your child, too.

 

[lilmansmom]

How can you have custody if you EVER work? Oh you don't work. You rely on everyone else to support your child. Is that it?

No I am a stay at home mother SUPPORTING AND PROVIDING for my children!!

 

[Silverplum]

Visitation is a right.. if he is not taking advantage of that right then how does he deserve any? I am not interfering when I believe things are in our childs best interest. I dont trust my ex, and i dont believe he has any potential on being the dad he should have been. He had that chnace and has abused it by being absent and not wanting it before. He has never faught before int he past and is only doing so now because child support got raised. How is THAT in any best interest for the child? An absentee father all of a sudden wanting visits? Our child DOES NOT know him! Nor does our child care for him, my boyfriend has been the one providing for him this whole time!

Well, then.