Please Help!!

[MommaBearX3]

He has every right to say no to the visit taking place at another childs birthday party. If it were me, I'd not go just because of not knowing who will be there-- especially given how UNSTABLE you appear. I'd fear for my safety if I were him, walking into a room full of people YOU know.

Ya know, you aren't listening so I don't know why anyone bothers. But you are on the fast track to losing custody. Your job as the CP is to foster a relationship between your child and the NCP. WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT IS IRRELEVANT.

Jeez, I wish I knew your name so I could submit these threads to the court on the NCP's behalf.

 

[Proserpina]

Can I get him in contemp of court if he doesnt show up to his supervised visit?

Nope!

Not a chance.

Honestly folks - this is spinny in high heels and lipstick.

 

[MommaBearX3]

And no, you cannot get him for contempt for not showing up. YOU are the only one required to ensure that your child is available for his visitation.

And yes, whether you have your child or not does not mean that you aren't a lousy parent. Plenty of piss-poor parents still have their kids. You are a sorry excuse for a mother, as well as a sorry excuse for a human being.

 

[nextwife]

Actually my child wouldnt still be in my care dont you think? Who's the one who gets to determine where place of visit should be? My other child has a birthday party that same day and I am requesting the visit be held there and in the court order it doesn't say where it should take place? My sister admitted she does not want to be a part of this and will no longer approve to being supervisor.

Good grief. A supervised visit at a different kids BDay party? Are you kidding me? Can we say "DISTRACTIONS" to dad's time?

Big surprise sis doesn't want to touch this situation the way you are carrying on and trying to find ways to thwart dad's visits.

 

[Just Blue]

Please stop trolling this web site.

 

[lilmansmom]

He has every right to say no to the visit taking place at another childs birthday party. If it were me, I'd not go just because of not knowing who will be there-- especially given how UNSTABLE you appear. I'd fear for my safety if I were him, walking into a room full of people YOU know.

Ya know, you aren't listening so I don't know why anyone bothers. But you are on the fast track to losing custody. Your job as the CP is to foster a relationship between your child and the NCP. WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT IS IRRELEVANT.

Jeez, I wish I knew your name so I could submit these threads to the court on the NCP's behalf.

well then he be in contempt of court for not making his OWN visit? Or not cooperating with me on the terms I am suggesting?

 

[mistoffolees]

Actually my child wouldnt still be in my care dont you think? Who's the one who gets to determine where place of visit should be? My other child has a birthday party that same day and I am requesting the visit be held there and in the court order it doesn't say where it should take place? My sister admitted she does not want to be a part of this and will no longer approve to being supervisor.

Would you PLEASE grow up and stop trying to interfere with Dad's relationship with the child?

From all your inane ranting here, it sure looks like the best thing for the child would be for you to lose custody entirely.

 

[lilmansmom]

And no, you cannot get him for contempt for not showing up. YOU are the only one required to ensure that your child is available for his visitation.

And yes, whether you have your child or not does not mean that you aren't a lousy parent. Plenty of piss-poor parents still have their kids. You are a sorry excuse for a mother, as well as a sorry excuse for a human being.

I am ensuring that he has a place and supervisor, he is the one choosing not to attend or agree to both!!

 

[lilmansmom]

Would you PLEASE grow up and stop trying to interfere with Dad's relationship with the child?

From all your inane ranting here, it sure looks like the best thing for the child would be for you to lose custody entirely.

I am doing what is best for our child and this is how I fel is the best way to protect him! Dad is not a good dad!

 

[Proserpina]

well then he be in contempt of court for not making his OWN visit? Or not cooperating with me on the terms I am suggesting?

Why does he have to agree with you?

Why can't you agree with HIM?



(I'll give you a hint - it goes both ways).

And no, he will not be in contempt.

 

[Proserpina]

I am doing what is best for our child and this is how I fel is the best way to protect him! Dad is not a good dad!

Says you?

Your opinion doesn't matter.

 

[tuffbrk]

well then he be in contempt of court for not making his OWN visit? Or not cooperating with me on the terms I am suggesting?

Cooperate with you?!! Because you're cooperating with his desire to see his child and build a relationship right?!! Get real - If you were half dead in the street he'd probably step over your body and keep walking.

You need medication. Counseling is not enough for you. Seriously - you going through menopause, suffering sleep deprivation, anything? Please see a Doctor and get a full physical.

 

[lilmansmom]

Why does he have to agree with you?

Why can't you agree with HIM?



(I'll give you a hint - it goes both ways).

And no, he will not be in contempt.

Because the court order states IT HAS TO BE SOMEONE WE BOTH AGREE ON.... he is not agreeing nor am i. So in this case no one is in contempt because we both cannot agree. If he doesnt show up for his supervised visits he should not get his regular visits either because he needed supervised first. That is what I was told.

 

[Proserpina]

Because the court order states IT HAS TO BE SOMEONE WE BOTH AGREE ON.... he is not agreeing nor am i. So in this case no one is in contempt because we both cannot agree. If he doesnt show up for his supervised visits he should not get his regular visits either because he needed supervised first. That is what I was told.

Okey dokey.

Let me try to type a little slower so you can understand.

Visitation is, for you, an OBLIGATION.

Visitation is, for him, a RIGHT.

Oh, the judge is going to have so much fun with you.

 

[Silverplum]

Oh, the judge is going to have so much fun with you.

It's been a while now since we all thought it would be fun to converge at a poster's trial.