Can an affair sex video be legally used in court to lock him out of his house?

[xylene]

OG you really need to get over your animosity towards single people who sleep with married people. THEY are not the ones breaking vows and THEY are not the cause of marriages breaking up. It's the sleazy MARRIED people who choose to have affairs that are causing the problem. The single people they victimize may be stupid and have low self esteem but you can't MAKE someone break their marriage vows if they didn't already want to.

Marriage is so last millennium.

You may as well be asking a buggy whip maker not to be grateful for people who are into BSDM...

 

[Proserpina]

WHOA, there, girl, dial it down a notch, okay?

I don't disagree with you in theory, but how about we try to keep the board at a PG13 level, huh? I'm 500 miles away and I can hear you from here.

Can you hear me now?

 

[maplewood]

Ohiogirl completely derailed this thread.

 

[Proserpina]

Ohiogirl completely derailed this thread.

It's not like anything can really be added.

You've been given the correct information - several times.

 

[cyjeff]

Ohiogirl completely derailed this thread.

Sorry, Darlin'.... let me get it back on track.

You lost all hope of privacy when you let a tape of you bumping uglies with a married man leave your house. The chance of that tape being introduced in court approaches 100% if your love muffin disputes even ONE demand his soon-to-be-ex makes.

Please tell me you work out or, at least, have an interesting birth mark.

As to the rest of the divorce, you have no more stake in it than I, personally, do. Butt out. You are only hearing a tenth of the story.

Worse, you kept him out all night on a school night... and his wife was waiting at the door. Wait, I thought you said he was separated and his wife had left to think things over?

nevermind... did you think she wouldn't notice him coming into the house in the same clothes as yesterday? Did he at least try the "hammock in the back yard" story?

Where did he leave the tape that wife discovered? Was it tucked up in the garage in a box marked "drill bits" or did he leave it in the kids' VCR so when they started "Cars 2", they saw the REAL Lightning McQueen?

 

[maplewood]

Sorry, Darlin'.... let me get it back on track.

You lost all hope of privacy when you let a tape of you bumping uglies with a married man leave your house. The chance of that tape being introduced in court approaches 100% if your love muffin disputes even ONE demand his soon-to-be-ex makes.

Please tell me you work out or, at least, have an interesting birth mark.

As to the rest of the divorce, you have no more stake in it than I, personally, do. Butt out. You are only hearing a tenth of the story.

Worse, you kept him out all night on a school night... and his wife was waiting at the door. Wait, I thought you said he was separated and his wife had left to think things over?

nevermind... did you think she wouldn't notice him coming into the house in the same clothes as yesterday? Did he at least try the "hammock in the back yard" story?

Where did he leave the tape that wife discovered? Was it tucked up in the garage in a box marked "drill bits" or did he leave it in the kids' VCR so when they started "Cars 2", they saw the REAL Lightning McQueen?

The video was discovered the night she came back from leaving town. He spent the night at my house several times a week. She gave him lots of freedom to do whatever he wanted. Their marriage has been on the rocks for years.

The video tape was in a camera memory card. It was totally unexpected for her to find it. Divine intervention.

Thanks for the input!! Bye!!

 

[Proserpina]

Please tell me you work out or, at least, have an interesting birth mark.

Best response ever.

 

[las365]

If the wife wants to make the tape part of the court records of the divorce, this is the part of the divorce process that actually does concern you.

Washington State Courts - Court Rules

 

[CourtClerk]

OG you really need to get over your animosity towards single people who sleep with married people. THEY are not the ones breaking vows and THEY are not the cause of marriages breaking up. It's the sleazy MARRIED people who choose to have affairs that are causing the problem. The single people they victimize may be stupid and have low self esteem but you can't MAKE someone break their marriage vows if they didn't already want to.

And let the church say AMEN.....

Let the lesson be:
If you're going to sleep with someone else's husband, don't leave evidence.

 

[Proserpina]

And let the church say AMEN.....

Let the lesson be:
If you're going to sleep with someone else's husband, don't leave evidence.

And remember folks - what they'll do with you, they'll do TO you.



(Frankly I believe this has been a "I'm The Wife, Actually, Seeing What I Can Get Away With And How Hard I Can Screw The *******" production)

 

[stealth2]

The video was discovered the night she came back from leaving town. He spent the night at my house several times a week. She gave him lots of freedom to do whatever he wanted. Their marriage has been on the rocks for years.

The video tape was in a camera memory card. It was totally unexpected for her to find it. Divine intervention.

Thanks for the input!! Bye!!

Yet, earlier, you said:

Yes, I was very upset about the sex tapes being discovered, but I sympathize with him. He and his wife have been heading for this divorce for 3 months. They unofficially separated three weeks ago. The sex tapes were created when they were separated and his wife took their son out of town "to think." He had them hidden in his library, and his wife was not known for snooping around. His wife neglected their marriage; she checked out of their marriage a long time ago. It was highly uncharacteristic and unexpected for her to snoop around last week and find the videos. His wife is an attorney and has a bar license to protect. She is intelligent and level-headed, and I don't think she will release our sex videos for the sake of her son. Her son needs a father.

*Years* and *three months* are somewhat different. So which is it.

And... ya know? Neither you NOR lover-boy seemed all that interested in his son and his sake while you were breaking up his family. Why the concern now?

 

[Ohiogal]

Ohiogirl completely derailed this thread.

No I didn't. I pointed out that though you have been screwing a married man for the last 1.5 years, WIFEY wasn't thinking divorce until 3 months ago. You made a sex video with a married man. You gave up privacy when you taped the act and let a copy out of your possession. Wifey can post it on the internet if she wants. Wifey can use it to prove adultery. Wifey can sell copies of it and call it, Hubby and slut -- live and in technicolor.
And guess what? You don't have a privacy claim.

 

[Ohiogal]

Yet, earlier, you said:



*Years* and *three months* are somewhat different. So which is it.

And... ya know? Neither you NOR lover-boy seemed all that interested in his son and his sake while you were breaking up his family. Why the concern now?

Does it matter? She has already been proven a liar. Her and her lover both.

 

[Ohiogal]

OG you really need to get over your animosity towards single people who sleep with married people. THEY are not the ones breaking vows and THEY are not the cause of marriages breaking up. It's the sleazy MARRIED people who choose to have affairs that are causing the problem. The single people they victimize may be stupid and have low self esteem but you can't MAKE someone break their marriage vows if they didn't already want to.

Not saying that hubby isn't sleaze. However he needed slime to get wth in order to break his vows. And he apparently easily found it in OP. And the single people -- they aren't victims. Sorry but unless they claim rape, they are participants and not victims. Don't make excuses for them Ecmst. Calling them victims excuses their patheticness. They aren't victims. That is an excuse.

 

[Ohiogal]

And let the church say AMEN.....

Let the lesson be:
If you're going to sleep with someone else's husband, don't leave evidence.

Or don't sleep with a married man.