mistoffolees
Senior Member
Not totally relevant. You are, of course, correct that the divorce continues to be controlled by MA. But that's not the issue here.All court orders have originated in MA and here is where jurisdiction lies.
Mom moved to NC and is now receiving insurance coverage by the state. The state wants to recover their money. They have every right to do so and the divorce order has absolutely no bearing on what the state does.
As I said earlier, OP can try to use his divorce order to get ex to reimburse him for the amount being spent on insurance since the order seems to require Mom to provide insurance, but he can't stop NC from collecting (via MA).