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[Alex1176]

"No Contact Orders" are available when the abuser has been arrested and charged with a crime.
WomensLaw.org | Arkansas: No Contact Orders

In this case there is no crime since the girl is above the AOC.

I would like to see some citations from law sites that a judge can issue NCO or RO against somebody who is not stalking, abusing etc.
Thank you.

 

[Zigner]

"No Contact Orders" are available when the abuser has been arrested and charged with a crime.
WomensLaw.org | Arkansas: No Contact Orders

In this case there is no crime since the girl is above the AOC.

I would like to see some citations from law sites that a judge can issue NCO or RO against somebody who is not stalking, abusing etc.
Thank you.

The PARENTS can seek the RO based on his continued pursuit of the CHILD against their wishes.

Please don't post nonsense here Alex.

 

[Alex1176]

The PARENTS can seek the RO based on his continued pursuit of the CHILD against their wishes.

Please don't post nonsense here Alex.

Can you please provide back up for your statement?
Thank you.

 

[Zigner]

Can you please provide back up for your statement?
Thank you.

Interfering with parental rights will do it Alex.

 

[Mt8711]

Or maybe the fact to not cause a family issue... She agreed to give him a chance by him going to counseling, aa meetings, and getting medical help. Just as of yesterday she was hit again. Believe me the first time it happened I wanted to do all I could do, but due to parents request I agreed that maybe it was a fluke, now I know it's something that is a repeated offense. To all of you thinking I am just moving down a list, not true, I have respected the parents request and have made no attempt to contact her or see her. She will be 18 soon enough and none of this will matter. I was just under an impression that this was a helpful cite. Everyone else has their ghosts and problems, I just happen to tell mine. I am not hiding anything, I'm just asking opinions not judgement, we will let God do that. I believe I have all the legal advice I could get on these situations

 

[Mt8711]

And I am not in constant pursuit, or persistent pursuit. As stated I have not made any contact once the parents have asked me not to.

 

[Silverplum]

Or maybe the fact to not cause a family issue... She agreed to give him a chance by him going to counseling, aa meetings, and getting medical help. Just as of yesterday she was hit again. Believe me the first time it happened I wanted to do all I could do, but due to parents request I agreed that maybe it was a fluke, now I know it's something that is a repeated offense. To all of you thinking I am just moving down a list, not true, I have respected the parents request and have made no attempt to contact her or see her. She will be 18 soon enough and none of this will matter. I was just under an impression that this was a helpful cite. Everyone else has their ghosts and problems, I just happen to tell mine. I am not hiding anything, I'm just asking opinions not judgement, we will let God do that. I believe I have all the legal advice I could get on these situations

Ask what you wish, but judgement is part of the package.

So many people wish they could do as they please without "being judged." Too bad, so sad: you're constantly being judged.

 

[mistoffolees]

And I am not in constant pursuit, or persistent pursuit. As stated I have not made any contact once the parents have asked me not to.

Good. Then there's no problem. If you continue to stay away until the child is 18, you will then be able to do whatever you want.

 

[stealth2]

And I am not in constant pursuit, or persistent pursuit. As stated I have not made any contact once the parents have asked me not to.

So... is it safe to say that she is the one contacting you? Has it not occurred to you that she is trying to get you to contact her by telling you she's being abused? You either call CPS or you walk away. Well, really both would be best.

 

[CdwJava]

I have heard a great many tales of woe passed on by third parties allegedly from abused teens that all turned out to be bogus tall tales designed to elicit support and sympathy from others.

Have you actually SEEN her grievous injuries? Did you see her when she was laid up at the hospital with a fractured pelvis? Did you see all these bruises and her dad inflicting them?

What she SAYS may not be the truth.

Also, understand, if she had all these bruises, a teacher would likely have called the cops or CPS. If she had a fractured pelvis, the hospital would have called the police if they had even an inkling that it was inflicted by another. So, I fond the story of severe physical abuse to be iffy, at best.

 

[stealth2]

Ditto Carl. The story just isn't plausible.

 

[Mt8711]

I have documented evidence of the abuse. I have pictures of the bruises, of the busted nose, and X-rays of the fracture. Her mother talked her into not pressing charges. I have recordings of threats of death, and recording of gunshots, as well as the recordings of his apology. I know for a fact bc I picked her up a road from the house bc he was shooting guns. No the story is not false, it's true, but who wants to admit to problems at home, no one does, everybody including all you readers want to act like everything is perfect. However I have placed in my evidence and she will be moving out to live with her sister. It's a sad thing, but I believe people will get what they deserve. I will definitely make sure of that as well

 

[Ohiogal]

Or maybe the fact to not cause a family issue... She agreed to give him a chance by him going to counseling, aa meetings, and getting medical help. Just as of yesterday she was hit again. Believe me the first time it happened I wanted to do all I could do, but due to parents request I agreed that maybe it was a fluke, now I know it's something that is a repeated offense. To all of you thinking I am just moving down a list, not true, I have respected the parents request and have made no attempt to contact her or see her. She will be 18 soon enough and none of this will matter. I was just under an impression that this was a helpful cite. Everyone else has their ghosts and problems, I just happen to tell mine. I am not hiding anything, I'm just asking opinions not judgement, we will let God do that. I believe I have all the legal advice I could get on these situations

And when all these broken bones and such happened -- she didn't go to the doctor? You allowed a CHILD to determine what should happen to her abuser? All of this matters. Seriously, all of this matters.

If this man is that abusive, he could kill her next week, tomorrow or even tonight. But that is okay -- she asked you -- a responsible, caring adult -- not to report the abuse she reported to you because she wants to protect the abuser.

 

[Ohiogal]

I have documented evidence of the abuse. I have pictures of the bruises, of the busted nose, and X-rays of the fracture. Her mother talked her into not pressing charges. I have recordings of threats of death, and recording of gunshots, as well as the recordings of his apology. I know for a fact bc I picked her up a road from the house bc he was shooting guns. No the story is not false, it's true, but who wants to admit to problems at home, no one does, everybody including all you readers want to act like everything is perfect. However I have placed in my evidence and she will be moving out to live with her sister. It's a sad thing, but I believe people will get what they deserve. I will definitely make sure of that as well

And yet you do nothing. Her mother cannot prevent charges from being pressed.

Yeah, you really care about this girl -- NOT! If you did, you would take all your evidence and turn it over to the police.

 

[PQN]

This is such a sad situation. I really hope that OP calls CPS. That family needs help.