Now what?

[lilmansmom]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

Please can someone explain this. My ex now files AGAIN for contempt of court but I dont see his grounds. i took our child to our agreed place of exchange my son told him he didnt want to go with him and started crying and shaking. he threw up on our way there and complained of a headache and stomach pains i did in fact tell our son, in front of the witnesses, that he has to go with his dad. our son said he didnt want to and even told his dad he wouldnt go with him. my ex tried giving him reasons but my son knows better and still refused. after trying and standing there while everyone watched how our son DIDNT want to go with his dad, his dad finally said ok and stopped bothering. Now i got contempt papers saying i refused to let him come with him. how am i in contempt please someone explain?

 

[Frustrated434]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

Please can someone explain this. My ex now files AGAIN for contempt of court but I dont see his grounds. i took our child to our agreed place of exchange my son told him he didnt want to go with him and started crying and shaking. he threw up on our way there and complained of a headache and stomach pains i did in fact tell our son, in front of the witnesses, that he has to go with his dad. our son said he didnt want to and even told his dad he wouldnt go with him. my ex tried giving him reasons but my son knows better and still refused. after trying and standing there while everyone watched how our son DIDNT want to go with his dad, his dad finally said ok and stopped bothering. Now i got contempt papers saying i refused to let him come with him. how am i in contempt please someone explain?

Here we go again!!! I know I shouldn't respond but I just can't help myself. Do you not read ANY of the responses that you got on your previous posts?? Despite what you may think in your screwed up little head, you are in contempt if the father did not get to exercise his visitation. If necessary, you are expected to forcefully put your child in the father's car and leave!!! I know you will argue back that he didn't want to, look at what it was doing to him, yada yada yada. YOU are in the wrong, AGAIN. Get over it.

 

[lilmansmom]

glutton for punishment too.

I'm taking bets. This one will go six pages before it gets closed.

how does this put me in contempt is all im asking

 

[lilmansmom]

Here we go again!!! I know I shouldn't respond but I just can't help myself. Do you not read ANY of the responses that you got on your previous posts?? Despite what you may think in your screwed up little head, you are in contempt if the father did not get to exercise his visitation. If necessary, you are expected to forcefully put your child in the father's car and leave!!! I know you will argue back that he didn't want to, look at what it was doing to him, yada yada yada. YOU are in the wrong, AGAIN. Get over it.

i did all that i was supposed to. would you feel comfortable just putting your kid in the car with someone they barely know and dont even want to go with? i did encourage it, as everyone saw. my ex was the one who gave up trying

 

[Antigone*]

i did all that i was supposed to. would you feel comfortable just putting your kid in the car with someone they barely know and dont even want to go with? i did encourage it, as everyone saw. my ex was the one who gave up trying

Why do you bother coming back here. You have no crediblility and no volunteer is going to help you.

 

[mommyof4]

My guess? It is obvious that you have poisoned this child against his father and Dad knows this. There is no reason any semi well adjusted child would be so clingy as to make himself physically ill without quite a bit of help from some very trusted adult. Guess who that adult is?

Knock it off. Making your child so scared to spend time with his father is pathetic and cruel.

YOUR job is to reassure the child that it is AWESOME that Daddy loves him so much. YOUR job is to make sure the child knows what a wonderful time he is going to have with Daddy and how excited you are that he gets to go spend time with this person that LOVES HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH.


I sincerely hope the judge sees through your crap and Dad prevails. You have already been found in contempt. Do we remember what the judge told you last time?

You, in my opinion, are not emotionally mature enough to be trusted with the amazing responsibility of raising a healthily adjusted child to adulthood.


Is that a clear enough answer for you?

 

[lilmansmom]

Why do you bother coming back here. You have no crediblility and no volunteer is going to help you.

because i try getting answers to this

 

[Just Blue]

because i try getting answers to this

Hire an attorney.

 

[Antigone*]

My guess? It is obvious that you have poisoned this child against his father and Dad knows this. There is no reason any semi well adjusted child would be so clingy as to make himself physically ill without quite a bit of help from some very trusted adult. Guess who that adult is?

Knock it off. Making your child so scared to spend time with his father is pathetic and cruel.

YOUR job is to reassure the child that it is AWESOME that Daddy loves him so much. YOUR job is to make sure the child knows what a wonderful time he is going to have with Daddy and how excited you are that he gets to go spend time with this person that LOVES HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH.


I sincerely hope the judge sees through your crap and Dad prevails. You have already been found in contempt. Do we remember what the judge told you last time?

You, in my opinion, are not emotionally mature enough to be trusted with the amazing responsibility of raising a healthily adjusted child to adulthood.


Is that a clear enough answer for you?

posting history on this one mommy

 

[lilmansmom]

My guess? It is obvious that you have poisoned this child against his father and Dad knows this. There is no reason any semi well adjusted child would be so clingy as to make himself physically ill without quite a bit of help from some very trusted adult. Guess who that adult is?

Knock it off. Making your child so scared to spend time with his father is pathetic and cruel.

YOUR job is to reassure the child that it is AWESOME that Daddy loves him so much. YOUR job is to make sure the child knows what a wonderful time he is going to have with Daddy and how excited you are that he gets to go spend time with this person that LOVES HIM SOOOOOOO MUCH.


I sincerely hope the judge sees through your crap and Dad prevails. You have already been found in contempt. Do we remember what the judge told you last time?

You, in my opinion, are not emotionally mature enough to be trusted with the amazing responsibility of raising a healthily adjusted child to adulthood.


Is that a clear enough answer for you?

i have told him this, but it takes time to reconcile with a complete stranger. even the counselor says it takes months for them to phase in eachother lives, not only 3 visits. i tell him he needs to go with his dad and that he should, he sees what all goes on and what his dad puts me through and his wife, my son dont like this man and doesnt want to be with him

 

[mommyof4]

posting history on this one mommy

Oh, I spent hours the other day reading through her stuff.

What OP is claiming (no idea if this is a Kelly clone....) is nothing short of abuse. May the child be placed with the parent that truly loves him and may OP be granted strictly supervised visitation. So on the off chance this woman is truly this demented, she should rot.

 

[CJane]

There is no reason any semi well adjusted child would be so clingy as to make himself physically ill without quite a bit of help from some very trusted adult.

This is the only part I disagree with.

As an adult with a rather pronounced anxiety disorder, who has children with anxiety issues and siblings with anxiety issues - they don't always make sense. They're not always caused by anything at all.

This kiddo might really just have this much anxiety about adults that aren't well known. That's not necessarily Mom's doing.

But even if that's the case, Mom's not handling it correctly.

 

[mistoffolees]

Hire an attorney.

Terribly unfortunate for the kid. I hope the court gives Dad custody - it would be far healthier for everyone involved.

 

[ecmst12]

Duplicate post. OP already got her answers. We all know the road she's heading down.

And how did you punish your son once you got home?