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lilchocolate1

Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york i would like to know if my child is turning 21 and i havent recieved child support from his dad in 4 years and i started a support case but never got a order for support am i still entitled because child support sent me a letter saying that they were going to close the case becz my son is turning 21 but what about the last 4 years. can i pursue this and win or am i wasting my time and this deadbeat gets away?:mad:What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
 


Antigone*

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york i would like to know if my child is turning 21 and i havent recieved child support from his dad in 4 years and i started a support case but never got a order for support am i still entitled because child support sent me a letter saying that they were going to close the case becz my son is turning 21 but what about the last 4 years. can i pursue this and win or am i wasting my time and this deadbeat gets away?:mad:What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
You never got an order for support. You have managed these four years without it why now?
 

LdiJ

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york i would like to know if my child is turning 21 and i havent recieved child support from his dad in 4 years and i started a support case but never got a order for support am i still entitled because child support sent me a letter saying that they were going to close the case becz my son is turning 21 but what about the last 4 years. can i pursue this and win or am i wasting my time and this deadbeat gets away?:mad:What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
If you never actually got a support order, then it really is too late to get one now.
 

SESmama

Member
Do you have a court order for CS and just never got anything from enforcement or did you never get a court order for CS?
 

meanyjack

Member
this deadbeat gets away?:mad:What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Uhh...deadbeat? Why did YOU not get a support order until the child was about to reach the age of majority?
And did you have a support order and it was terminated 4 years ago?
But then again, it would've been great if your sentences were somewhat coherent... :rolleyes:
 

sandyclaus

Senior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? new york i would like to know if my child is turning 21 and i havent recieved child support from his dad in 4 years and i started a support case but never got a order for support am i still entitled because child support sent me a letter saying that they were going to close the case becz my son is turning 21 but what about the last 4 years. can i pursue this and win or am i wasting my time and this deadbeat gets away?:mad:What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
If you never got a court order for child support, then you can't pursue one now (since your child has reached majority).

You seem to have done just fine for the last 4 years without doing any follow-up on the existing request for child support. If you really needed that support, you would have pursued it sooner rather than waiting until now. Why did you wait so long?
 

lilchocolate1

Junior Member
Uhh...deadbeat? Why did YOU not get a support order until the child was about to reach the age of majority?
And did you have a support order and it was terminated 4 years ago?
But then again, it would've been great if your sentences were somewhat coherent... :rolleyes:
obviously i was coherent enough for you to ask annoying questions. and no i did not get a support order becz taking off from work for all the times i needed to was not feasible. i am a single mom with other children. but if it is too late so be it we pay for our mistakes and it cost me four years of child support.
 

meanyjack

Member
obviously i was coherent enough for you to ask annoying questions. and no i did not get a support order becz taking off from work for all the times i needed to was not feasible. i am a single mom with other children. but if it is too late so be it we pay for our mistakes and it cost me four years of child support.
Certainly never a shortage of excuses. Losers make excuses. And playing the "I'm a single mom" is a cop-out. Do you know how to use a freaking phone?

It doesn't matter now. And I'm sure the kids appreciate you being so damn lazy.
 

sandyclaus

Senior Member
...i did not get a support order becz taking off from work for all the times i needed to was not feasible....
I'll bet you wish you had gone ahead and taken the time off work to take care of this little annoyance now, especially since it cost you 4 years of child support (which you can't get back now).
 

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