rules!

[lilmansmom]

Hey, I have a question: Why doesn't lamemom feel like she should abide by any rules?

28 eight bottles of beer on the wall, 28 bottles of beer...

what rules am i not abiding? please explain i thought this was a helping forum

 

[lilmansmom]

A judge would side with dad because it is very obvious that you will do anything to thwart dad's rights to parent your mutual child. And why not do like everyone else does? Celebrate the birthday when everyone is present? If you want your child to always be with you, you have two choices: marry the dude and stay married to him, or get artificially seminated so there is no legal father. Forgot another option: single parent adoption. You have to remember that you picked this guy to be the dad.

but he has no change of circumstance to prove to the judge for this modification

 

[Antigone*]

does anyone know the answers to my questions on here? Is that the reasoning for the snide comments? Smart!

yep:d:d:d:d:d

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

what rules am i not abiding? please explain i thought this was a helping forum

To all who are obtuse: The rules from the court - court orders. Keep it up and you can land up being the NCP. Actually, please keep it up so that you can be the NCP.

 

[lilmansmom]

To all who are obtuse: The rules from the court - court orders. Keep it up and you can land up being the NCP. Actually, please keep it up so that you can be the NCP.

yes, i am following court orders. im saying my ex is wanting to do a modification to the original order b/c he wants to have specific start dates for the holidays and breaks.

 

[Antigone*]

To all who are obtuse: The rules from the court - court orders. Keep it up and you can land up being the NCP. Actually, please keep it up so that you can be the NCP.

Down deep, I think this is what she wants.

19 bottles of beer on the wall, 19 bottles of beer...

 

[lilmansmom]

To all who are obtuse: The rules from the court - court orders. Keep it up and you can land up being the NCP. Actually, please keep it up so that you can be the NCP.

he has no change in circumstance to ask for a modification of the original order though... i was under the impression from all of you that he needs that in order to get a judge to sign it

 

[lilmansmom]

Down deep, I think this is what she wants.

19 bottles of beer on the wall, 19 bottles of beer...

no i want my ex to have no rights! thank you!

 

[Rushia]

yes, i am following court orders. im saying my ex is wanting to do a modification to the original order b/c he wants to have specific start dates for the holidays and breaks.

I'm only giving a hint, cause you're attorney should darn well know this, he doesn't need a COC, if he's asking for a clarification. You'd do well to just sign and save yourself some money.

 

[Zigner]

This is just going to go on and on, as have all the others. I am recommending that it be locked down now...

 

[TinkerBelleLuvr]

he has no change in circumstance to ask for a modification of the original order though... i was under the impression from all of you that he needs that in order to get a judge to sign it

YOUR actions will be the change of circumstances that is all that is needed. He's smart to have it clarified. Yes, judges will order it and sign it because it will hopefully keep you out of court with he said/ she said. Then again, it may keep you in court because you'll be found in contempt because you don't like something and decide to do something stupid.

 

[lilmansmom]

I'm only giving a hint, cause you're attorney should darn well know this, he doesn't need a COC, if he's asking for a clarification. You'd do well to just sign and save yourself some money.

if i sign also will a judge sign it w/o having to go to court then?

 

[Rushia]

no i want my ex to have no rights! thank you!

Too Bad, so sad. It is way to late for that and he doesn't need a COC for a clarification.

 

[Proserpina]

Okay, in all seriousness.

Your post history is very clear - you are doing, and have done, virtually everything possible the thwart the relationship between your child and his other parent.

If you keep doing this, you can lose custody - to Dad.

With your history, given THIS particular question the answer is very clearly "yes" - Dad can absolutely have specific times added to his parenting time; he's not asking for custody, hence no change of circumstance is required - all he's doing is asking for clarification.

You claim to have an attorney. You claim all sorts of things that make (and I'm fairly confident I speak for many seniors here) the rest of us laugh because they're so ludicrous. Gosh, next I half expect you to tell us that your attorney is pro bono and eventually Dad will have no contact at all!

(Which we know won't be the case).

So, really, there is no reason for you to be here - unless you're a fake, a troll, and you're once again bored.

Now go ahead and have the last word. I know those types of little things are Very Important Indeed to you. But know that we know.

We're done here, I believe?

(Though at the rate this thread was going I doubt there's any beer left! )

 

[Antigone*]

This is just going to go on and on, as have all the others. I am recommending that it be locked down now...

Guess we should have been singing the neverending song instead, huh.